Thanks Loula.. its not the nicest thing to have to think about.. Ive just been very particular about not wanting to go through vaginal ultrasounds again because they REALLY traumatised me last time (I think I had 6 or 7 in the space of 2 weeks or something, coz they couldn't find out what was wrong with me).. I dont want those old feelings coming back up with baby!!
I guess I also should have titled my post "arrggh, I cant stand the medical model!!).. its not the medical institutions I cant stand... its just the medical model "we know best, never mind what you think" approach that I can't stand from certain medical professionals..