I met with my midwife today and told her I would be refusing the 28, 32 and 40 week scan- but I will do the 36 week one.

I also refused to be weighed and have my BMI calculated and recalculated everytime I visit as I find it demeaning and embarrassing when all they want to do is refer to me as bariatric and obese and talk about BMI etc ALL THE TIME I don't want to be humiliated in front of my husband.

I am the same size as I was when pg with DD. No diabetes...fit and healthy.

Anyway- they can shove their policies. I'm not an idiot. Pfft to them!!!