I feel your pain hun.This is my 5th child & my stomach muscles don't like me anymore lol!I have been relatively fit with all my other pregnancies (walked 12 plus kms a day with my last one ) but last year i was suffering majorly from depression & put on weight & became a bit of a hermit & of course wasn't actually planning on getting pregnant again so i have really blown out with this one & already look big & pregnant & fat .There isn't much i can do about it right now except try & get some exercise & eat right so i'm not going to worry about it until after the baby is born.At least i can say i'm not fat ,i'm pregnant lol.I'll worry about the just fat part later