Question re DTD (TMI)

**vic261** · March 3rd, 2013, 10:17 AM

I was wondering if anyone had some good advice for me. I am currently 21w+5 pregnant. Lately when DH and I have been DTD I have been very dry and its not working for both of us. We are getting frustrated. We are taking our time and making sure I feel ready but inside its not ready iykwim.

DH is already having issues as he is thinks of bubs but is still keen. My drive is through the roof, so frustration has set in.

So my question is can I use something to help the dryness or I shouldn't because I am pg? I have a dr's appt in a month but would love some advice before then.

Thanks in advance.

**bubno.3** · March 3rd, 2013, 10:22 AM

Hi.... i would just use some personal KY from the supermarket..... and get DTD !!

**PumpkinZulu** · March 3rd, 2013, 10:22 AM

You can use lube

**Saffy** · March 3rd, 2013, 10:37 AM

go for it while you are interested!!

**bubno.3** · March 3rd, 2013, 10:45 AM

i was horny as hell around the 20s weeks ....so yep get that lube and go for it ...

**Pholi** · March 3rd, 2013, 10:51 AM

KY is the way to go - we used it intermittently throughout my pg.

**Heaven** · March 3rd, 2013, 12:40 PM

Yes, get to the supermarket! LOL.

**Frangipani Lou** · March 3rd, 2013, 03:15 PM

I prefer silicone based lube cause you only need a few drops and it doesn't dry out like KY. It's not as easy to get though! The brand I like Is Pjur.
Wet Stuff and Astroglide are 2 other brands that come up in a google search.
I buy mine from Passionfruit in Richmond( Melbourne) and they also have an online store.
And I just have to say.... Have fun! The hormones make it brilliant so if you feel like it... Go for it!!!!

**jellybean88** · March 3rd, 2013, 03:37 PM

We have used every brand of lube under the sun in my pregnancies even the heat and cool ones but I tend to go in the other direction and not in mood during pg much to dh dismay