Hey - we also had a fairly traumatic first hospital appointment. I was placed in high risk category due to a history of depression (ten+ years ago) and told I would need to see a psychiatrist, even though I have NOT experienced depressive symptoms during pregnancy, and have a supportive GP who would be my preferred first contact if I DID. Ended up writing a letter to the consumer advocate at the hospital, although they weren't able to change anything before the first appt with high risk clinic. The doctor there took a look at my file, and wasn't able to figure out why I'd even been referred there, so ended up referring me back to low risk (thankfully). However, it was massively stressful, and a classic example of medical practitioner just taking choices out of our hands.