Good morning ladies,
i have a question that im hoping none of you judge me for lol, coz i have no one else to ask.
My DH and i are pretty "out there" with our sex life, alot motre out there than most of our friends. We use sex toys, well i guess you could that i am the only one who uses them, lol, but to the point,.. will this harm our baby? im more concerned about the vibrations than anything. obviously when my DH is home i dont use them as often but the weeks that he's away i may use it about 4 or 5 times.
again im sorry if i offended anyone but i have no where else to go to ask a question like this one...
thanks for your help xxx
No don't think it will hurt but in your later 2nd trimester and third trimester I would try not put too much pressure or friction on your cervix. It might not make any difference either way but I wouldn't risk doing any damage to the cervix but that would be my only concern if I were you when using toys.
Don't worry about your baby. Thats what the amniotic fluid is there for as a cushioning and the things you let go (your hormone things can't remember the name for it) is a relaxant for the baby so it probably enjoys it.
Dont be embaressed!!! I have been wanting to ask the same question!!!
And I have another one to add. Again really embaressing. and probably a really really stupid question.. Ok so here goes.. When me and DF DTD it is fairly vigorous and fast ok so what i want to know is and i feel stupid even saying it but it has been bothering me so much i have actually stoped DTD because of it which is leading to using the toys more, its just one big cirlce! anyway my question - can the baby be "shaken" up too much by this? As in - can the baby get shaken baby syndrome whilst it is inside me? I feel like an idiot even asking. But it is really really playing on my mind. I just feel like my poor little baby is getting tossed about all over the place in there...
Elyse84: i too have the same fear, will too rough hurt my little bean? i hope not, and i too have to slow everything down coz it plays on my mind so much.
Guys I DTD through 3 kids & it wasn't always gentle. I've also used toys often (Thats more embarrassing to admit than I thought!) & all my kids are fine.
As someone said, just be gentle with your cervix.
Like the others have said I doubt it will cause any harm but I would be a little more careful with how deep you use it during the later part of the second tri or early in the third tri for the reasons already mentioned about the cervix.
I guess the closer to due date you get it will help you out a bit to get things rolling
I have to admit I am jealous ... I cannot do ANYTHING and have been given strict instructions to not do ANYTHING (not even for a little self satisfaction) man I am going to be so edgy by the time bub comes
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but i have no where else to go to ask a question like this one...
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man I am going to be so edgy by the time bub comes 
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