Ultrasound today.... SOOO scared...

[Pretty Butterfly]

Well we have reached the 19th week, and I am sure the one little bubba we still have is alive and well, been moving for a few weeks now!!!!

But today we have our scan to check if bubba will also be a cleft bubba....

I know I've been there, done that, and I coped fine, and LOVE Kane to bits, and I am truely not worried for my sake, but for my poor babies sake...

I am completely stressed that if bubba is cleft affected, he/she will know I had a slightly higher risk of birthing another cleft bub, and blame me for having them, knowing they could be afflicted...

Was it fair to have another one??? It doesn't bother me in the slightest, I love every bit of Kane, but I guess I didnt stop and think how the child will feel....I am not a selfish person at all, and love having my babies...

I just pray that if we find out today bub IS affected, I can explain to my bubba how much we wanted him, cleft or no cleft....

Scan is at 2.15, so I'll be back to let all my wonderful friends know how we go...

[Kazbah]

Good luck today hun *hugs*
Will be thinking of you.

[Beach Mama]

Oh sweety for you today and that all goes very well hun and like you said, cleft or no cleft you wanted bubs in your family regardless and will love him/her so much hun.

[Jennifer13]

All the best for your scan today. I would think your little one will know how loved and wanted they are for whoever they are and whatever they look like - as does Kane!

[~Raven~]

All the best Jodie

I can explain to my bubba how much we wanted him, cleft or no cleft....

That's why you are such an awesome Mummy

[Ellie]

Thinking of you and hoping all goes well.

[morgan78]

Good luck for today and no matter the outcome that little one will never blame you as you love your babies so much it wont matter just like your gorgeous boy Kane

[Footsteps]

good luck today huni.
you are a wonderful mummy.
take care
rach xxx

[Liviam]

All the best today. Will be thinking of you Jodie. And always know that you love you kids cleft or not and that should have no bearing if you have another baby or not.

[The[cookie]Doctor]

Thinking of you Jodie.
You are a wonderful mum.
Best of luck.

[aussienic]

I hope all goes well

[Kitt3n]

PM there is no need to feel like that - cleft bubba or not that baby is going to have one super loving mummy and that is so much more than so many kids will ever get.

Good luck today

[meow]

blame me for having them, knowing they could be afflicted...

Your baby will never think that about a cleft palate. Everything will be fine either way darl

Obviously you have every right to be nervous though. Having had a cleft palate myself it was the only thing I could imagine coming up on that scan so was quite fixated on it too.

Hope all has gone well.

[Visitor7]

Just wanted to wish you the best of luck for today. I hope you have a good outcome, can't wait to hear about it.

[Antheia]

Goodluck for this arvo hun.

[puppies]

many prayers and best wishes coming your way hon. Take a big deep breath and enjoy seeing your beautiful babies heart beating, after all that is all that matters!
Let us know how you go.

[sangie]

Good luck sweety! Your baby is so lucky to have such a wonderful mummy and family.

[HotI]

Hope all goes well today. My bro and i have talipes so our kids have a higher chance of getting them too. It's something i hope that i don't pass on, but if it happens i wil deal with it. At least i have a heads up so it won't come as a shock,if it does happen. So i can understand being scared.

take care,

k