ok so i had a tiny meltdown yesterday, and my DH and i got into an argeument over the phone (he works at the mines) and since he cant be here to do things himself, he expects me to be super woman and get a million and 6 jobs for him while he's away. anyway our air con broke yesterday and i had spent all afternoon frantically looking for the warrenty, and he called me so i had to tell him what happened, then he started "have u found the warrenty" "its where YOU left it" "you always put things in the wrong places" blah blah blah..i cop this alot as yes, i can be absent minded and misplace things BUT yesterday i didnt have it in me to hear all that, id been at work since six in the morning and as soon as id gotten home id discovered the air con and spent almost 2 hours searching, i was in no frame of mind for harsh words.. so then i lost it and started screaming down the phone at hime what a horrible person he was being to me and if he was more understanding he's give me a break (of course i wasnt so nice to him when i was saying it ) then when i got off the phone i had another yelling fit at my dog he'd made a mess in the computer room and i dont know, i guess i just went mental for a bit
once i calmed down, i felt terrible. my poor baby was inside me probly freaking out, or wondering what the heck was wrong with this mature woman thats sposed to be its mother
so i guess my question is, can yelling harm your unborn baby?

Thanks for letting me vent guys i do feel much better now lol