i am keeping a record and from when i started recording they have been 2305, 2316, 2325, 2331, 2345, 2358, 0012 - so kinda all over the shop and i think they are lasting about 45seconds to a minute - havent been quiet able too time that by myself - i sent DH too bed!
I think its just the unknown that is scaring me - if i knew for sure this was labour and normal maybe i would be alright!