Hi girls,

Now I want to state at the outset that I know that giving birth is a beautiful gift and that my baby will be worth all the pain and changes to my body, but I would like to take a minute to be shallow and vain.

What are your experiences with post belly droop? I was a little overweight when I finally got pregnant (85.5 ks, not huge, but not bikini model) and have seen some post pregnancy photos of saggy tummies. I have had one super skinny friend who got hardly any stretchmarks and looks the same now as she did pre-pregnancy and another friend who was a little larger (just a bit smaller than me) who also looks the same now.

Does pre-pregnancy weight make a difference? I am 33 weeks (pretty big though, belly only, have hardly put on any non-baby weight, only 5.5 ks in total) with only a few very faint stretchmarks down low and was wondering if I will ever wear a bikini again?

I don't want to make anyone feel bad about themselves and like I said above I know it is quite narcissistic of me considering what I get for it (My little Jellyman!!!!) but I would like to know.

Any takers?