I can't help but laugh, not at your pain but because you think its a bad thing to be whinging, its a pregnant womans right to be able to whinge if she wants.
I had the worst nights sleep last night (can no longer sleep on my back or tummy thanks to bubs and pressure and a baby bump) i woke up roughly every half hour and it was the worst, im uncomfy, im FAT, huge infact, my back is killing me and i wake up with cramps in my calfs all the time
Ask your doc about Bio-Magnesium for the cramps, thats what my doc gave me, and if ya wanna whinge, go ahead and do it, we have the right and no-one can tell us we dont. LOL