thread: Emotional before birth

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    Nov 2006
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    Cool Emotional before birth

    Okay now that the time is getting much close I am feeling quite emotional. Mostly because I feel like I am going to miss my DD while in hospital but also that our family is going to change. Did anyone else feel like this?

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    Mar 2009
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    Im not sure as we are waiting on our first but I would say how sweet it is to hear you think of your dd while your new addition is on the way Good luck I have been and will be thinking of you.

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    Jun 2009
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    I was in hospital and as soon as they told me i had to be induced i started to bawl... i think because i was nervous and scared about what was about to happen and I only had an hour to process it before induction began.

    Your family will change but i'm sure it'll be for the better. Your daughter is about to become a big sister and soon you'll have another gorgous bub to dote on as well.

    All the best for tomorrow!!

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    Sep 2006
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    Firstly all the best for tomorrow hun xxx..... I understand how you feel cause this goes through my mind ALL the time- though I guess like everyone says once the lastest addition has arrived it will feel like it was always the four of you!!! I am not much help hey!!! Sorry just wanted to let you know I feel the same way too - Its normal!

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    Jun 2007
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    I hope everything goes perfect for you today and in just a few short hours you will be meeting your little one (If you haven't already). DD will be fine. My friend had just the same thing when she was being induced and didn't want to leave her DS. Once bubby is born I'm you'll be able to see DD again and when you're ready you'll be back at home with her!
    Have a great day!

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    Apr 2006
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    Yip, perfectly normal. I couldn't imagine life with another bub, everything was so good with just DS but now she is here I can't imagine our family without her.

    Good luck, hope everything goes well for you.

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    good luck and i cant wait to read your ba. xox

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    Big . Hope it all goes (went?) well. I think it's important to remember your relationship with dd will change a little bit, that's inevitable. And if you need to, allow a little part of yourself to mourn for that relationship you had, so you can get let it go and embrace the new one you're forming with both your kids.

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    Feb 2007
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    yes hon i felt exactly the same...
    everythikng changes when you welcome your 2nd (and i am sure with any bub) but i couldnt imagine being just the 3 of us anymore.
    good luck - thinking of you. xxx