jojo - what do you want? Are you happy to wait until your baby starts labour or are you worried?

Do you still feel that your baby is ok?

If you are happy and you're happy that your baby is happy, think about stall tactics or just outright saying NO.

Babies want to born - your baby will come. A posterior lie will often mean a baby is "late" to engage and consequently will go postdates. But it doesn't mean it won't come at all. I've had mums in your position lots of times, their babies came and they came safely.

This is about what you want, and what you're comfortable with. Don't be pushed into an induction or a caesarean on a just in case basis. You sound very torn and I don't mean to add to that confusion. But if you listen to your gut, perhaps you won't feel so confused any more.

Hang in there...you still have a week before they get heavy and ALOT can happen in that time at this stage of the game and it probably will

PS - An anecdote for you. I recently had a first time mum who at 41.5 weeks had a high, closed cervix and an unengaged, posterior baby. GP and hospital telling her to have a caesar. She said no. She went into spontaneous labour at 42 weeks and birthed her healthy baby in three hours.
Moral of the story: No one knows what you are capable of...until you're doing it