just reading over the posts , i totally 2nd what trish said ... babies do love to wreck your plans , i was on the way to the hosp to get a sleeping tablet due to pre labour , thinking i could get knocked out and have a full nights sleep ..... but no i gave birth that night

i didnt belive the doc that i was in real labour as previous docs told me that labour was ages away ...

have sex , i really did think it worked