So I have posted before re my concerns with my boys school. Last term I spoke with my oldest (yr2) teacher in regards to his reading. She came across rather defensive & well IMO with a lot of attitude.
We also have concerns about my kindy boy. he seems sad a lot of the time & we are concerned about him socially at school. He is also behind with reading etc.

So I organised a P&T meeting this morning & just had a call from the school now telling me of the times this has been arranged. I was told that the principle will also be sitting in....

Now I am ok with this but I know from previous meetings/encounters thats they are going to crap on about how its "normal" they are doing ok, on track etc. That I will get the same in a big school. I am worried I will walk away with no real idea of how my children are doing still. They seem to be very good at keeping their progress "secret" We are not openly told what reading level they are on. I am told that they are doing fine. But when I dug for more info "fine" apparently means is a YEAR behind.

I am worried that seems DH isn't able to come with me I will just sit & listen to them crap on & then walk away ****ed off & with no answers.

Can I get some suggestions on what I need to ask, what I need to say to get the real picture. I don't want to hear that they are fine. I honestly believe that they are not doing fine. I think they are falling behind & its not because of them. I feel that the teachers are just doing a **** job.

I want to change schools. We are just stuck atm.....