I am currently looking into catholic primary schools and filling out applications, however all of these catholic schools are asking for a reference from our parish priest. While we have a 'family parish' that some members of our family attend on a not so regular basis & that we had our DD baptised at, WE rarely attend church, except sometimes for occassions such as easter and christmas. How on earth can I get a reference from our parish priest when he really doesnt know who we are?! Has anyone else had a similar problem?