soooo either...

the medication DD2 is on for fluid behind teh ear drums is working or my decision to discontinue trying to nightwean and go back to feeding is...
because things are better (well yesterday and today so far) she fed at 10pm and 3am and when i popped her back to bed she wasnt tense like she had been, and she slept for 90 mins yesteday and so far 75mins today!!

so im going with the second point that going back to whats best for bubs and not me is definatly the right thing for all of us!

phew pity it took me a few weeks to work that one out :doh: i feel silly. bad and guilty..but the past is the past and were moving on!!

Wow - well done, hope it continues to improve. x

Thats great Jols. Maybe she will just night wean in her own time. :hug:
Hope she is getting better as well.
Dont feel guilty or bad or silly. Its good to try different things and to see what works. All trial and error with being a mum. On the job training ;)

WooHoo!! Great job Jols. It was a horrible time and hopefully it is behind you now.

don't feel silly, bad or guilty my love.

I'm so glad you sound a bit happy!!

Oh yeah, totally know what you mean. Had one of those epiphany-type moments (well, more like a D'UH!) after we gave up with the cot.
Glad to hear things are better for you guys, that's great! Here's to many more restful nights!:clap:

sigh i think i spoke too soon :(

Hang in there - will take a while to settle if you've had heaps of messiness. #1 here had lots of ear issues - took a few days to get in the groove each time. Hope you can get a catch up over the next few days. xxx