Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss May 2010

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Am getting cramping, not sure if it is from the biopsy, or a follow through for AF, but she is strong, so fingers, leggs, eyas and everything crossed for me this month!! Woot Woot!!!!!

Reet!!! Congratulations!!! When did AF start?? If it was after 12 oclock full flow, not classed as day 1 untill Friday, but well done so excited for you!!!!
The info on Clomid was interesting thanks X One of the side effects for some women (ie Me!!) is thining of the endometrium lining, but that is only because I 'O' Late in my cycle. So when my body was stimulated earlier than it was supposed to, my endo lining couldnt catch up.
But honey, I hope and pray that it works for you, and this month is your month.


My DH is standing here naked after a shower with his nutts swinging, telli'n me to get off comptr, they are swinging like pendulums ATM, I was going to do more persies, but I am being molested....He says Hi (half heartedly)


Bye! :D Darn it had my leggs still crossed.................woopsy

9 minutes later....................Im back :lol: LMFAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just kidding, was a false alarm..............Now I can't remember what I was replying to, so I had better go to bed. Goodnight Chickies!!XX

Murraycod nothing like a midnight romp :rofl: :rofl: and a quickie at that if your DH did get abit :rofl: I just got home from work. Interesting to say the least. Bit sad as I assisted a bub born which was due same day as mine. Kept wondering why she have hers and I don't and I can't even get pregnant again :wall: so frustrating.

Your job sounds like a mentally challenging one at that!

Your job tonight must have been a tough one, but as I had said earlier, If I had a nurse looking after me and my pregnancy, it would be you XXX

Have a lovely weekend XXXXX I'm definately off to bed now.....,my eyes hurt!


MMMMMmmmm Sleep in - in the morning!!!! I am having a girlfriend over, she is totally addicted to my Vindaloo Currie Making Skills!!, so we are having a Curry and Edward Cullen Night!!

sounds great Murray cod, have fun, we love vindaloo curries in this house. Not to mention Edward Cullen hehehe xxx

Reet! Thank you so much for that info! Your a darlin!!! I got AF last night so Happy Day 1 for me today!!!

Yay for May Club is going to be a beautiful thing! :dance:

Murraycod - hehehehehehehehehhe! Im at work and everyone is wondering wat im giggling at.... how do i explain this one!?! ehheheheheh! My DH was doing naked lunges in front of me this morning... EIK!!!! :o

Hi Ferrals - Are you Day 1 today too???

I have forgotten what was said in the last thread so forgive me if Ive missed something that someone was said! Might have to go back on peek!??

Im off to Coolangatta in the morning for 7 nights!! Sooooo excited!!! Except, i hate leving my fur babies :shakehead:

PS - DH made my new ticker.... he thinks he's so funny!

T-hopes have a brilliant holiday. We'll miss you. Will think of you in the sun when i turn up the heating and put on my woolly slippers!

Murray - OMG you had me ROTFL! I love a bit of fun in the middle of the night, ah in fact any time. I hope this is the thread you get your BFP in too sweetie.

Ferals - you would have picked up your fur babies by now and either be driving home with them or be at home. Oh! I am so excited and can't wait to see more pics.

Thopes - the weather on the Goldie at the mo is just superb. I hope you enjoy your holiday, get some relaxation in AND some fun in the sun - hehehe.

Reet - that was a good bit of info. I was just talking to my friend about it the other day.

Possum - hiya

Mildez - oh sweetie - you are so strong and so amazing. Despite your own pain you were able to help give that woman and her baby such a beautiful gift, and she doesn't understand the enormity of what you gave given. I know it hurts, but I am so proud of you. Hope that your pain isn't too raw just now.... thinking of you and sending you my love. Hoping its your month too.

TCCLAC - Hiya you busy girl Still thinking of both you and Ron for next week and just wishing you both speedy recoveries.

Hi to anyone else I have missed - it's such a new thread I can't cheat and just review the thread! I don't usually post over the weekend, so am looking forward to hearing how you fared over the weekend. Take care...

mildez - what an emotional experience that must have been for you. I cannot begin to imagine! It is a cruel world we live in sweetheart, what doesnt kill us, i hear will make us stronger! Im sorry you had to experience another blow to that heart of yours that has already been beaten so many times. I hope today, you find things that make you smile and you can move forward, closer to your dream xx :comfort:

Dory - so good to hear the weather is nice up there! I didnt realise you were from there!! hugs to you gorgeous woman xx

possum - yeah haning for the heat! I hate the cold!!! I'll try and check in on everyone from DH's phone! I'll miss you all!!! xx

Hi lovelies,

Feel like I should change my user name to justlurknig! Would love to be back on here full time but still not quite strong enough for that yet.

Ferrals- I hope you have a lovely day with your gorgeous furbabies, can't wait to see pics.

T-Hopes - Dory is right the weather here is stunning at the moment. With Gold Coast Gay Day on sunday I am praying it stays this lovely. Hope you have a great trip.

Murrycod- your posts crack me up :rofl:. Hope you had a great sleep in. I'm having one tomorrow as I've been very good and getting up every morning to go walking at 6am.

AFM- being very fit and healthy at the moment and feeling good for it. Have first bt for this cycle on monday morning but I'll need to o by day 12 as donor daddy is away for a week after that so :crossfingers::crossfingers: I get an insem this cycle if not just more excuse to exercise hard while i know I'm not UTD.

Have a great weekend (and great long weekend Queenslanders)

Morning all

New thread already and not even May yet ! wow there was some posts during the last thread was difficult to keep up !

Well T-hopes yay for AF not too far behind me again ! she just about leaving my house so if anyone wants her shes on the way ! Clomid sounds good I wish I could get some too as I know I don't always ovulate but at my age and with 9 kids already don't think a fertility clinic is the place for me ! and thats the only place I can get it as I already asked my GP and he said a big fat NO only at a fertility clinic !

Mildez give yourself a big smile when you look in the mirror today you did well helping that lady she was in need and you really helped her even though you had sad thoughts of yourself ! I think midwifes are wonderfull people and sometimes we forget they want to have babies too and they mc too ! but I would not be here today if it wasn't for people like you assisting me in the past ! I am sure your time will come and in the mean time remember you are doing a wonderful job !

Murraycod oh you little tease ! your DH needs to make the most of it as when you got kids well he won't be wondering around dangling as much will be running around changing nappies and keeping little cod quiet while you check on Bellly Bellly !
Why do men think thats sexy dangling I mean ? :lol:

Ferrals how you doing ?

Sunbeam hi there glad your still lurking you will be strong again in time !

everyone else hope you have a great day !

MURRAYCOD!! LMAO!! Pity it was a false alarm, not that dangling nuts are super attractive, he should try harder ;) (maybe give em a bit of a shake? LOL!) And woohooo! for cramping, anything else been happening????

Ferrals: Hope your having fun with your furbabies, are they out and about or hiding and being shy? George spent the first week at home hiding under the blanket, DH wanted to take him back cos he thought he was broken!

T-hopes: Have fun on the coast! Say hello to the sun for us! And yay for day 1! This is the month babe :)

Mildez: I'm sorry darling, you did so well in helping that lady though, be proud of that!

Hi Dory! xo

Sunbeam: It's exciting when you post :) We miss you, but we're happy to hear from you whenever, doesn't have to be all the time! Good luck for BT on monday, lets hope for a quick O! Good on you for being all fit and healthy, your baby will thank you for it :) Mwa xo

Crafty: Your so part of the yay for may campaign! Rest up for the coming BD'ing!

AFM: Test result for 8 DPO was BFN. Lets all act shocked, lol. It was actually really peaceful not to have my heart hammering away those 3-10 minutes. Had a bit of cramping this morning, but I honestly can't imagine getting preg, just feels like I'll be doing this for a while yet. DH is getting a tad desperate, he rubbed my belly yesterday and yelled ''DIG! DIG!'' cos I told him implantation occurs days 7-10. Oh well, just gotta wait and see if any blasty's lying around in there took his advice.

Kitfaerie- No! u HAVE to believe in urself a bit more! Think to urself 'This is my month.. im pregnant!!! yay!!' Power of the mind!! One of my friends have drilled me about it today.. and i really do believe its true.. if u keep thinking.. nope im not pregnant, im gonna still be waiting in 5 yrs, then thats exactly what will happen! so pls pls pls know that those little spermies are digging for their lives!!! :D

Well im not sure what to do, AF came yesterday, but only very very lightly, and now all gone! the gyno said that cld happen but now im not sure if i shld wait til day 5-9 to take clomid like he first originally told me to do 5 months ago when i started on it or if i shld start it now since im not bleeding anymore.... oh i dont know.. and i cant call him til tues! i wld hate to go against his word and something go wrong.. maybe i just wait another 4 days.. hhmmm who knows!! I just wish AF had come and given me the cramps and everything else for the 5 days.. atleast things then wld have felt half normal!
Anyway gotta run to work! Be back later!!! xxx :)

reet-i think i would stick to the days dr has said,pain he is uncontactable..saffy- thanks for asking,i'm waiting for af to arrive,hoping the ivf cycle wont delay her too much..kitfarie-way too early for you to be consided out yet..big hello to everyone else

Reet: Ok ''This is my month, I will be pregnant!" Hmm, that actually feels good! I like it xo
Oh and I agree with MatthewsMum, wait til you can at least talk to him about it. GL babe!


MatthewsMum: Yeah, waaaayy too early, I find testing really stressful so I thought I'd start while I didn't have any expectations. Probably test again 10 dpo, but I wont consider myself out til AF shows up. She won't though, Reet said so :P

Murrycod-you make me laugh!

T-Hope-No AF hasn't shown her face yet and i don't feel like she is going to show as yet but you know how your body can play tricks on you and tell your DH love the ticker.

Dory- i have been playing with them all day i will attach pics to this post for you to have a look.

Crafty-all good here at furbaby central.

Kitfaerie-LOL my DH say's STICK! STICK! how funny are our men.

AFM- been a bit preocupied with my babies sooooooooooooooooooooo cute AF still not here my temp went back up a bit this morning to 36.58 but who cares i have kittens to play with so i am not testing.

Here is some pics of my babies the hairy chest in the back ground is my 16 year old son yes 16 told you my boys would spoil them.

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