:( Scary Dream :(

I have been tossing up whether or not i want to post here, to admit the dreams are really happening but it's starting to get to me so i can't see any harm.

About a week ago now i had a dream that i was in DD1's room, it was immaculate, some clothes laid on the bed ready for her to get dressed, her toys all in their place.
Then a girl walked in, about 10yrs old she told me i shouldn't be in here and i told her it hurts too much to leave. ?????????
Then i am basically looking on myself and there is so much pain in my eyes and tears are streaming down my face.
The girl then talks to me and says "MUM :o we need to go now"...
Then i woke up.. WTF how is this girl calling me MUM when DD1's clothes the size she is NOW are on her bed.

Ever since the dream has gotten more 'detailed' and i know whats wrong.

DD1 has passed and the 'girl' is DD2, she is telling me i need to leave the room and i need to pack away her things.
In my dream DD2 is around 10, and i am STILL holding onto things of DD1's at her current age... :o

It's really getting to me, DD1 is 2 on thurs, in the dream i see new toys and clothes that she doesn't have now, i'm telling you if she gets anything like that for her b'day i think i will :cry:..

I know i'm being stupid but how does a mum NOT worry about her little girl?

Honey- that sounds awful!!! So sorry you keep having this dream. I don't have any knowledge of dreams but just wanted to give you a hug!!

I don't know much about dreams but I do know that most "death" dreams are about death of a certain stage, not necessarily a prediction of them actually passing on.

I'd say you're a bit freaked out that your baby is about to turn 2, and its coming out in your dreams as such. 2 can be a big one, they're not a baby anymore, and it just flies from there. I found DS turning 3 really really hard.

Thanks girls.. your prob right AE hun, i have been thinking a lot about her party and rushing round and what presents for ppl to get when they ask etc, it might just be my way of 'remembering' my little girl.
It's SCARY and i wake up in shock... it always feels so real, god i hate those dreams.

Had it again last night, this time i saw 'how' she passed and it gets worse... :crying:
She was in an accident with DP, and NEITHER of them survived :crying: :crying: :crying:

omg i sitting here with tears bawling down my face i feel for you so much it must hurt to have those kinds of dreams and not know what its trying to tell you. Ive done a bit of googling and found some meanings of death and car accidents from dreams:

For years in our family it has meant that someone in the family would soon be wed and the wedding would be beautiful. In some circles it means a birth, the opposite of death

:comfort: naww huni!!! pls dont let these things get too u so much cause they can really put a downer on ur mood and u will get paranoid without even knowing it.. iykwim??
i used to have these dreams too about my 2nd baby boy.. i used to have a dream i would see him running and screaming at the age he is now n his 8.. he would be hysterical screaming out to me but i couldnt do anyting but watch but someone was chasing him with a knife and then he would fall n the person would catch up and i would see this look on my babies face.. and him screming hystercially and then before i could see what happens i would wake up automatically... i was actually screaming in my sleep and that dream went on for 2 weeks then that was it... never found out wat that actually meant but i was goin crazy..... i hope u can find a good meaning n be relieved of this worry:hug:

Thanks girls.... the weird part about it was it was in DP's ute, i find it odd as we don't have a car seat in his ute but he is going to see if he can get one as he wants to take her to the Murray for cod opening but not leave me without a car.
I haven't even been thinking about him taking her away.... her turning 2 yeah i have been a little emotional but what mother isn't when their baby has a birthday.... god i will be a wreck come Z's birthday in Jan... :rofl:

:hug: :hug: :hug:

I remember reading once that if you dream that someone has died, they will live a long and happy life. I hope that it is because A is turning two and that after her birthday, the dreams settle.