I have been tossing up whether or not i want to post here, to admit the dreams are really happening but it's starting to get to me so i can't see any harm.

About a week ago now i had a dream that i was in DD1's room, it was immaculate, some clothes laid on the bed ready for her to get dressed, her toys all in their place.
Then a girl walked in, about 10yrs old she told me i shouldn't be in here and i told her it hurts too much to leave. ?????????
Then i am basically looking on myself and there is so much pain in my eyes and tears are streaming down my face.
The girl then talks to me and says "MUM we need to go now"...
Then i woke up.. WTF how is this girl calling me MUM when DD1's clothes the size she is NOW are on her bed.

Ever since the dream has gotten more 'detailed' and i know whats wrong.

DD1 has passed and the 'girl' is DD2, she is telling me i need to leave the room and i need to pack away her things.
In my dream DD2 is around 10, and i am STILL holding onto things of DD1's at her current age...

It's really getting to me, DD1 is 2 on thurs, in the dream i see new toys and clothes that she doesn't have now, i'm telling you if she gets anything like that for her b'day i think i will ..

I know i'm being stupid but how does a mum NOT worry about her little girl?