Article: Doula Craze (QLD Sunday Mail)
Now mums turn to the birth guru
HANNAH DAVIES
28may06
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SHE'S in agony, huffing and puffing. Then he goes and makes it worse with an ill-thought "Come on, it's not that bad".
Fiona Woodward and Simon Mee are trying to avoid scenes like this by hiring a "doula" to help with the birth of their third child, due today.
It's the latest craze to hit Queensland from the United States, involving a "personal trainer for parents-to-be" who supports the whole family through the childbearing experience.
The word doula is derived from the term for the most important female slave in an ancient Greek household – the woman who helped the lady of the house give birth.
Ms Woodward, 34, of Toowoomba, is relying on experienced doula and mother-of-two Leah Palmer-Johnstone to be there during her home birth, along with a midwife.
After enduring two labours without a doula, she's looking forward to a more relaxing experience.
"It's very reassuring to know Leah will be with me when I give birth," Ms Woodward said. "She's already provided so much emotional support throughout the pregnancy, and I know she has some tricks up her sleeve for the labour, such as massage and heat packs and positive affirmations.
"She will also allow Simon to relax a bit more and enjoy the birth, rather than being fully responsible for having to keep me comfortable."
The couple, parents to five-year-old Imogen and three-year-old Miranda, intend to let their daughters witness the birth of their new sibling.
"Fiona wanted to do it this way this time, so I'm supporting her in that decision," 35-year-old Mr Mee said. "I'm happy to have Leah there to help me and the girls through this."
Ms Palmer-Johnstone, 40, is one of four doulas who can be hired from the Indigo Place clinic in Toowoomba at a cost of up to $850, which includes ante and post-natal support.
"It's about me providing additional emotional support and making the man feel confident and comfortable in his role, because men don't often understand the feminine energy."
Latest craze?! My teacher has been doing this for over 26 years!!! ROFL!