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Why after two other miscarriages did i get so attached again! i was anxious about miscarrying again...and yet in the six days i knew i got attached and my heartbroken all over again.
It's so devastating and i'm so cranky at myself for doing it. How can you want something and love something you don't even know, you just love the idea of? I feel so stupid. :o
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You're not stupid darl, it's a biological norm. Although I agree it's completely stupid - we should know that there's something wrong and not get attached. But that's not fair on the bub either. Believe me, I've been on this ride 5 times, and I don't recall paying for a ticket. Big hugs to you :comfort:
Hugs not silly we have been there to. It's the hopes and plans you make that break your heart the most I think x
big hugs, your not stupid in any way. the situation is stupid and it really sucks. I am very sorry.
Oh sweetheart don't ever, ever feel stupid for loving. You created a life, for a brief time carried that life inside you. Therefore you are more than entitled to love that life, and to grieve it.
Big hug. X
:hug: cos you can't not get attached :hug:
I'm so sorry chick.
I'm so sorry. I only knew I was pregnant a few days before I miscarried and I was so attached.. That was your child. Grieve for the loss, you are in my thoughts. xx
Yeah it's sucks xox
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thanks everyone. doing a little bit better this weekend ...still sad but not quite as angry. it is so frustrating and heartbreaking.
:hug: I'm so sorry for your loss x
You shouldn't feel stupid, hun. How can you not love what you have created and dreamed of? I am so very sorry for your loss :hug:
I'm really sorry Kirley :hug:
Oh Hun... I so sorry you find yourself in this position again. Don't be angry at yourself... Be sad... Grieve... But don't be angry at yourself. You did nothing except allow yourself to hope. I feel for you :comfort: