Help - did I O ???

Please help, I don't know what to think...

I'm not temping anymore, it was getting too stressful. I am recording my CM though & using OPK's.

I've had EWCM since day 9 and did my 1st OPK in the evening of day 10 (today day 12). There was a line, not as dark as the control line, but quite dark. I thought it would be darker the following night (last night) but there was nothing - no line at all! My urine seemed to be much more diluted last night though. We BD'd on day 10 & 12 but I don't know when to think O will be... I know most people say the line has to be as dark as the control line, but after getting no line last night, do I assume that the night before's was + ??? In which case, should we BD again tonight?? I think I'm feeling ovuatlion pains today, so maybe it's today?? Anyone have any ideas????

Thank you for your help. :)

HI,
Some women don't get a true positive or they do only if they test very frequently (I am one of them). If you got a very strong line that the next day went to nothing I would take it that you had your LH surge on the day of that dark line. Therefore it would be expected that you would ovulate sometime between 12-36 hours after that dark line. I would keep getting jiggy with it for today and tomorrow to cover bases!
I wish you luck!

Thanks Flowerchild,

I've never had a line as dark as the control line on an OPK so I think you're probably right - I probably O'd 12-36 hours after the evening of day 10. Now it's day 12, so doesn't that mean it's all over now??? We did BD on day 10 & 12, but I'm worried we didn't do it enough... do you think there would still be a chance of catching the egg? Tonight will be 48 hours after the + test... ????

Thanks, and congratulations on your pregnancy. :)

I think tonight would just be "one for the road". You never know! It sounds like you have it covered!
I look forward to seeing how things go. Good luck! :hug:

Thanks for your responses, I appreciate it. I'm feeling a bit annoyed with myself. I should have BD'd more after getting the + but I thought it was a bit early, I was expecting more days of + tests.

Now I've got 2 weeks to obsess about it... fun, fun, fun.

Thanks again. :)

Hope the TWW isnt that stressful for you Samrus

Thanks Sunny Summer. It's not too bad so far... 6 DPO today. I feel quite calm this month actually. I'm sick of worrying about it I think. I'll probably be a mess by this time next week.... !!!