I sustained a 4th degree tear from the forceps delivery of my daughter Emily - I healed very well, quickly and with no further complications. I am absolutely determined to have a normal vaginal delivery and have a HR consultant that supports.
I'm putting things in place to help achieve this:
I'd like to buy the Pink Kit
I've found a Doula
I'm going to read and research more about the stages of giving birth.
Unfortunately the hospital I am with doesn't have a birthing pool at this time and I am high risk because I miscarried my last pregnancy at 17 weeks so would prefer to be under their care this time around.
Without water I am a little nervous about pushing the head out. Not so much external tearing but internal. I have purchased an Epi-No to help get this area ready - though I have no idea if it actually works?
What do you think can help get me mentally ready for this? I would like to fully embrace this stage and not feel fear at tearing.
I know that 4th degree tears are more common in first deliveries because of the use of forceps and I was wondering if anyone had achieved a vaginal birth after something like this?
