But I'm not reeeeeaaaaaady!

I'm heading back to work in 3 weeks - THREE weeks :o

I just don't feel like I've got my head around it...I don't feel 'organised'. I'm not sure exactly what it is I think I need to 'organise'...but whatever it is, I haven't done it!

I'm worried DS isn't ready for me to go back. He's still not sleeping through the night, his b'feeds are all over the place...how's he going to go without me?

I'm freaking out!! I didn't feel like this with DD. She was sleeping through, feeding in a predictable pattern etc etc we were sorted - DS and I are so not sorted!

Sorry to hear that things are worrying you at the moment. I can't say I've been in the same situation, but hopefully within a week of starting your job, you'll both settle into a routine and things will turn out ok :)

Hi there
I was exactly the same as you before I returned to work, so worried about how DS was going to feed etc but after a week we both got in a routine and there was no looking back!
I hope it's the same for you

Willow. I'm freaking out also.. I originally asked for 7 months off and now regretting not taking the full 12 months... I still have til dec but know in my heart i wont be ready... I'm off to work in few weeks to ask for the extra time... Just hoping they agree if not i'm giving the job up....

I really hope things work out for you and as mentioned things will probably ease up once you get back into the swing of things... Good luck