Tubal Reversals # 11

Here is a thread where you can chat with others about TTC after a tubal reversal... The old thread can be found here

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After noon Ladies.

How is everybody? Been very quiet today Hope you are all well.

I have had the worst day ever. I was a week late, as of yesterday, went to the dr because i had to get the final OK for my son to travel to NZ today, and the dr said i looked different, he did a preg test, even though it is impossible, and yes i have already had 2 m/c with the tl, and guess what, it is a BFP. Not good as today i woke to having the worst bleed ever. Went back to dr, and he thinks that once again i have m/c. So very sore in the tummy, but thank goodness the bleeding has eased. So was told to wait until beg of next year to look at IVF, as he wants my body to heal. So tonight i am spending the nite, on the lounge with my 2 girls, and a very sad dh, as he wants another bub just as much as i do. kiya

OH Kiya, I am so so sorry.

Thanks Storm. My dh is feeling the worst at the moment, as he feels it is his fault. Like i said to him, that it is the smallest of eggs getting through, because i still have my clips on. Then he said that when i have been given the Ok by my dr, we are goign to fly down to Sydney and start the IVF/ICSI. This has been the worst of all the m/c i have had ever and including while i have had my TL. I didn't feel right very early this morning, and when i stood out of bed the pain was that intense, but i needed to pee. So now just going to enjoy my 2 girls while they are here, hope my 2nd eldest son is having a great time in NZ and my eldest son is behaving himself back in the city, otherwise this mama is gonna knock some heads. kiya

Have they checked you out by U/S you dont want a tube to rupture, if it is still in the tube. Hope everything turns out OK for you.

Morning everyone,
Kiya, I am so sorry darl. My heart is with you....
AF finally left the building for me this morning after 4 days of the worst pain.
I really can't wait to have my reversal early next year, then fall pregnant and say Good bye to the dreaded AF for 9 whole months.
Have a good day ladies,
framaine xoxoxox

I have a u/s booked for 11am today. I hope it isn't in the tube, but i no longer have the pain like i did the other morning, and bleeding has virtually stopped. Well heading back to my lounge until i have to leave. Just don;t feel like doing anything at the moment. Kiya

Best of luck Kiya! !

hi everyone still here kiya good luck with your u/s today hope all goes well.




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Kiya how are you?

Hi Storm,sorry didn't get back yesterday, but my heart has been broken. I had my u/s and it showed that the preg wasn't in my tubes, but in the right spot. They also said that i prob m/c because i have some endometriosis again, and that my uterus is very thick because of it, making it very difficult for a preg to progress. They recommended that when i go to do the IVF that i have some of it removed to better my chances of a viable preg. I haven't given up though, and when the time is right and it will show itself, i will go and have another op to remove the endo, to better my chances. Well i better get going, as i have to ring dh up at work to make sure he is in correct uniform. He left before 5am this morning and hopefully he is dressed right. He is in the team awaiting the arrival of Trooper Pearce at the RAAF base. He is being given a full military ceremony on the base before being transfered to a funeral home. Thanks everyone for all your caring words, i am so glad i found a group where there is a great bunch of women. It makes the healing process so much easier to deal with. Love you all, Nik (kiya)

Oh Kiya, I am so so sorry...
I feel for you sweety. At least now you can get your endo treated and then give it another go.
I feel for your hubby, it must be a really tough day for him both personally and professionally.
Stay strong and just be there for each other and I'm sure you'll get through it.
Hugs and kisses
framaine xoxoxoxo

Oh Nik, I am so sorry. Bit of a miracle though, with the clips still on your tubes.Rest up wont you.
Hope all well with your Dh this morning too.
Thinking of you & sending lots of get well soon vibes -xx-

kiya, my heart goes out to you and your husband. have you got lots of family and friends to support you?
storm, you own cycle 6? i am learning more and more and hopefully will come back with a real insight for everyone here! at the moment i am doing placement in aged care. its so sad to see them just waiting to die. although saying that, they still all have distinct personalities and its great to see some photos of them when they were younger.... can't wait till next semester though, i get to go to proper hospital...
em, hows everything going? i'll get over the working hard business, but not until i have finished this semester..... when is your next u/s?
maz, bumpy, bump! how is your bump growning? and more importantly how are you really feeling?
dea, hows things going for you?

Hey Kiya Im so so sorry, you know where Iam if you need me.

Hey Luv. I did aged care for awhile and I loved it. They are so funny one minute your there daughter the next your there mother etc. I have another scan on friday so I hope all is ok. I was really sick this week with some bug and I was weeing out my bum and I was sick a couple of times. My tummy was so so sore for like the next 24hrs after and I was scared something was wrong so I'll see on friday. When are you going to save some time for making babies?????

hi kiya,
I'm so sorry, but a least you know that there was a problem and it can be fixed.
If you don't mind me asking is hubby in the military? and if is where are you based?
How are all you ladies doing?
Nothing to report here, just waiting for a period Dr dalton rang me up at 7.30pm and said that there was miscommunication between him and the nurse.
I have a period and they will start me on the pill he's putting me on a flare cycle so it's wait and see.
Hubby is 3/4 of the way in to the army.

have a great day ladies
ray:D

Hey Ray....I was thinking it was abit werid about what they were doing to you. I did leave you a msn off line message about it. Take care and hope you get some good news soon

hey em, yeh, theres always time for that but still waiting on God for the answer. I am really happy that things are going well for you and i hope and prayer that everything is okay on friday. will check in, so let me know. Are they keeping a close eye on you? i am just layed back about it now... sad in a way but I trust in God and because i believe, i hang on to that. I hope that friday brings you great news!!!

Yes and no really. They just say if anything happens to the other one or is gunna happen to the other one there is nothing they can do about it. Nice huh

kiya sorry to hear your news my heart goes out to you and your husband.
ray good luck with the flare cycle i hope it all works out I have my :crossfingers: for you.

Seven more sleeps Bernie....Good luck darl and take care. Hope hubby will be staying at home with you for afews days after the OP cause you sure will need it.
XX

em hope your scan on friday is a/ok as I know it will be,e so take it easy and don"t worry I only have four day of work left then 2 days off before op then 6 weeks off:dance::dance:

hi all well af showed up! and had nothing all day saturday then on sunday i had a bit of brownish stuff. it was really light i hope that everyone else is doing well.

Oh no Bernie, you have your op the day after I leave! Wishing you all the best.
Em, good luck tomorrow!!
Hiya Dea,bummer on AF showing up.
Hi to everybody, I haven't read back yet way too busy over here. Nearly done now, yikes we are off on Monday. Pretty much got the net sorted out, so I wont be gone too long, fingers crossed !!
Take care.

storm all the best with your big move hope it all goes the way you you want it :Dwhere has every one gone every quite in here.

Thanks Bernie, I hope it does too!

Em, where are you honey? Hope all is well.

Yep bub is fine and doing head stands on the ultrasound today. So so sick all day everyday and its only been the last like 2weeks. Sore lower back and legs (OVER IT).Thats whay i haven't been on to much. Screen makes me sick even. My only baby girl is a teenager tomorrow the big 13 (scarey).
Take care girls XX
PS GOOD LUCK BERNIE IF I DONT GET BACK ON BEFORE YOU GO IN. BE THINKING OF YOU.
Storm so sad :( your moving away. I hope it all works there and i hope you like it.

So glad bubby is fine Em!! A special happy birthday to Ebonie tomorrow. wow a teen ager, they grow up too fast.

We go on Tuesday, feeling a bit excited in amongst my mixed emotions hahaha Maz will be able to keep you all updated, but I should be back online in a week, depends on how the building is going.

I'm off ladies. See you all on the flip side!!
Take care!!

See ya Storm travel safe and hope you like it.
Hey Bernie good luck tomorrow darl hope all your dreams come true.
XX

well i am off not aloud to eat and from now have to be @ hossie by 1.
em hope you feel better soon and I am glad bub is fine rest and take it easy.
hope everybody is well.

em, so happy that bub is doing handstands... hope that he/she keeps spinning.... sorry about your sickness... make sure you eat well and take care of yourself. same old for me..
bernie, hope everything goes well!
hey to everyone else, how are you all? seems quiet.. must be a lot of ttc going on!

hi ladies, How is everyone going?
Bernie i hoped everything went well?
Em, plenty of gatorade it helps.
Me still waiting for period think it will be next week. Found out what a flare cycle is, they start the spray and injections at the same time and it only takes 8-10 days, so it's a lot shorter :dance: :dance:.
Hubby finds out next week if he is in the army.
Everyone have a great day:D

ray:D

Hi ladies,
its been a while, hope everyone is doing well.
Its been quiet on here lately.
Hey storm-you must nearly be settled in at your new place, hope you enjoy it.
Its freezing down here in Tassie, really miss the northern warmth. We are going to Vic in Jan for a week on the Murry River Houseboats so that should be nice and warm.
Anyway must go and start tea, chat to all later..

Hey where is everyone?
Maz you there? I need to chat to you.
Anybody out there.......

I know what you mean onemore. There is just no one around anymore. I guess everyone is busy with there lives.
Me- been hell sick and Im so over it. Doctor reckons ive got the first signs of toxaemia yah for me. Keep getting headaches and just genaraly feeling unwell. Cant sleep that well always waking up with aches and pains. Im so worried something is wrong with me but because Im only 12wks all they ever say is there is nothing we can do this early. I woke up two mornings ago and my hands and feet hurt so much and were so puffy so i went to the doctor and all he did was check my blood pressure and gave me a form to get a urine test done. Doctors so pi$$ me off.Had my 12 week scan today and baby is fine.

sorry everyone for not being here. Em, i know all is well with bubba. Me my life has just been turned upside down. You all remember how i told you about my 13yo son, well they don't want to do anything at the moment and want to do another scan at easter next year, which is good for him and us. NOW!!! we have just learnt that my 16yo nearly 17yo son has something wrong with his heart. I'm not taking this very well, and totally feel like this is my fault. So please excuse me if i don't reply for awhile. I will come on and read all posts, and wish everyone the best of luck with TTC :-)
Thinking of you all. Cheers kiya

:dance:Hi Em, thanks for replying.
You guys have been great to have on side so I wanted you to be some of the first I tell this exciting news to....I`m PREGNANT !!!!! after every thing we`ve been through I honestly had given up and now I can hardly beleive it. I`ve still got to go have U/S next week to make sure its in the right spot so I`m not getting my hopes up too much yet. I must say though, I went to the Dr yesterday and he`s a new one in town, he checked my blood pressure and refered me for an U/S, no test to be sure and didn`t say anything about how far along I was. So I rang the U/S place and they wont scan untill at least 6 weeks, so I go back to the Dr to get conformation, I ask for a blood test and he just skirts the issue and tells me to take another home test Fri then go and see him. So now Iv`e done 2 tests and they are both + and will take one on Fri and try and get in asap for U/S.
Sorry for babling:dance::D

hi onemore,
big congrats:clap: to you and your family i'm so happy:D for you guys.
doctors are idiots but don't stress to much about anything.
have a great day

ray:D