Tubal Reversals # 11

[Astrolady]

Here is a thread where you can chat with others about TTC after a tubal reversal... The old thread can be found here

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[storm]

After noon Ladies.

How is everybody? Been very quiet today Hope you are all well.

[kiya]

I have had the worst day ever. I was a week late, as of yesterday, went to the dr because i had to get the final OK for my son to travel to NZ today, and the dr said i looked different, he did a preg test, even though it is impossible, and yes i have already had 2 m/c with the tl, and guess what, it is a BFP. Not good as today i woke to having the worst bleed ever. Went back to dr, and he thinks that once again i have m/c. So very sore in the tummy, but thank goodness the bleeding has eased. So was told to wait until beg of next year to look at IVF, as he wants my body to heal. So tonight i am spending the nite, on the lounge with my 2 girls, and a very sad dh, as he wants another bub just as much as i do. kiya

[storm]

OH Kiya, I am so so sorry.

[kiya]

Thanks Storm. My dh is feeling the worst at the moment, as he feels it is his fault. Like i said to him, that it is the smallest of eggs getting through, because i still have my clips on. Then he said that when i have been given the Ok by my dr, we are goign to fly down to Sydney and start the IVF/ICSI. This has been the worst of all the m/c i have had ever and including while i have had my TL. I didn't feel right very early this morning, and when i stood out of bed the pain was that intense, but i needed to pee. So now just going to enjoy my 2 girls while they are here, hope my 2nd eldest son is having a great time in NZ and my eldest son is behaving himself back in the city, otherwise this mama is gonna knock some heads. kiya

[storm]

Have they checked you out by U/S you dont want a tube to rupture, if it is still in the tube. Hope everything turns out OK for you.

[framaine]

Morning everyone,
Kiya, I am so sorry darl. My heart is with you....
AF finally left the building for me this morning after 4 days of the worst pain.
I really can't wait to have my reversal early next year, then fall pregnant and say Good bye to the dreaded AF for 9 whole months.
Have a good day ladies,
framaine xoxoxox

[kiya]

I have a u/s booked for 11am today. I hope it isn't in the tube, but i no longer have the pain like i did the other morning, and bleeding has virtually stopped. Well heading back to my lounge until i have to leave. Just don;t feel like doing anything at the moment. Kiya

[storm]

Best of luck Kiya! !

[mrsjac]

hi everyone still here kiya good luck with your u/s today hope all goes well.

[storm]

Kiya how are you?

[kiya]

Hi Storm,sorry didn't get back yesterday, but my heart has been broken. I had my u/s and it showed that the preg wasn't in my tubes, but in the right spot. They also said that i prob m/c because i have some endometriosis again, and that my uterus is very thick because of it, making it very difficult for a preg to progress. They recommended that when i go to do the IVF that i have some of it removed to better my chances of a viable preg. I haven't given up though, and when the time is right and it will show itself, i will go and have another op to remove the endo, to better my chances. Well i better get going, as i have to ring dh up at work to make sure he is in correct uniform. He left before 5am this morning and hopefully he is dressed right. He is in the team awaiting the arrival of Trooper Pearce at the RAAF base. He is being given a full military ceremony on the base before being transfered to a funeral home. Thanks everyone for all your caring words, i am so glad i found a group where there is a great bunch of women. It makes the healing process so much easier to deal with. Love you all, Nik (kiya)

[framaine]

Oh Kiya, I am so so sorry...
I feel for you sweety. At least now you can get your endo treated and then give it another go.
I feel for your hubby, it must be a really tough day for him both personally and professionally.
Stay strong and just be there for each other and I'm sure you'll get through it.
Hugs and kisses
framaine xoxoxoxo

[storm]

Oh Nik, I am so sorry. Bit of a miracle though, with the clips still on your tubes.Rest up wont you.
Hope all well with your Dh this morning too.
Thinking of you & sending lots of get well soon vibes -xx-

[luvchildren]

kiya, my heart goes out to you and your husband. have you got lots of family and friends to support you?
storm, you own cycle 6? i am learning more and more and hopefully will come back with a real insight for everyone here! at the moment i am doing placement in aged care. its so sad to see them just waiting to die. although saying that, they still all have distinct personalities and its great to see some photos of them when they were younger.... can't wait till next semester though, i get to go to proper hospital...
em, hows everything going? i'll get over the working hard business, but not until i have finished this semester..... when is your next u/s?
maz, bumpy, bump! how is your bump growning? and more importantly how are you really feeling?
dea, hows things going for you?

[Mumof8]

Hey Kiya Im so so sorry, you know where Iam if you need me.

Hey Luv. I did aged care for awhile and I loved it. They are so funny one minute your there daughter the next your there mother etc. I have another scan on friday so I hope all is ok. I was really sick this week with some bug and I was weeing out my bum and I was sick a couple of times. My tummy was so so sore for like the next 24hrs after and I was scared something was wrong so I'll see on friday. When are you going to save some time for making babies?????

[ray]

hi kiya,
I'm so sorry, but a least you know that there was a problem and it can be fixed.
If you don't mind me asking is hubby in the military? and if is where are you based?
How are all you ladies doing?
Nothing to report here, just waiting for a period Dr dalton rang me up at 7.30pm and said that there was miscommunication between him and the nurse.
I have a period and they will start me on the pill he's putting me on a flare cycle so it's wait and see.
Hubby is 3/4 of the way in to the army.

have a great day ladies
ray

[Mumof8]

Hey Ray....I was thinking it was abit werid about what they were doing to you. I did leave you a msn off line message about it. Take care and hope you get some good news soon