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Ds is off for his first ever sleep over at nanas tonight. I dropped him off early so he can play and have fun before bed!
when I left he seemed happy! But once I got in the car and drove off I started crying! Cried most the way home :(
This is the first time he has been away form me over night, he has only just satarted to sleep thorugh and need to get him used to it for when nudge comes along in october.
I hope my lil pickle head is ok, I know I need a hug :(
:hug: I'm dreading that day :hug:
Lots of :hug: for you
more hugs :hug:
:hug: My boys LOVE sleepovers. They get spoiled rotten, and new toys to play with, new people to shower attention on them.
Try not to worry (you can always call Nan to see how things are going). Think of all the fun stuff you can do, grab takeaway and not have to share, have a long bath with your mummy ears turned off, sleep-in in the morning...enjoy your time!
What Nelle said! He will have a ball, so try to enjoy yourself :hug:. And ring to check on him at least a couple of times ;)
Thamks girls i knew you would all understand :) I am actually off to dinner so am really looking forward to getting ready in peace and having some time wiht DH before I head out to meet my girlfriends!
Nanna loves having him and i know they will have a great time! Thanks :hug:
aww hun its OK !!!! i was like that the 1st time i left DS with my mum , now if she offers , i say - here you go , see you tomorrow :lol:
i do miss him late at night ,so much so that i txt my mum saying - bring him home !! but he has such a blast at at Oma's how can i refuse ?
Aww boomba been there done that. Its so hard!!! He will be so well looked after with nanna, dont let it worry you. Enjoy your night out!
Don't worry, we love having our GS for the night.
We are having a break at the moment as I have a DH who need my full attention as he is on crutches. That said I had them yesterday and we had a great time.
Wait until their first day of school. That was the hardest day for me even though I still had one at home.
Enjoy your time out and your sleep in. :)
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Awww boomba!!! I know exactly how you feel. DD had her first sleep over at grandmas house about a month ago, i cried too!! I think we need them more than they need us! ;)
:hug: I know what it's like hun. It's hard at the beginning, I was calling every hour lol talk about OTT! But it gets easier and you learn to enjoy the time to yourself.
Sending you a big :hug:
Enjoy your time tonight!
Oh sweetie I dred that night when it comes :hug: can offer a person at the end of the phone
oh that first night is so hard for us Mums (and Dads) Even now I miss my eldest if he goes for a sleepover.. Last year I went to check on the kids before bed and when I went to his bed and it was empty I cried myself to sleep :blush:
They enjoy themselves though and its a nice break for us if we take good advantage of it, take nice long bath.. stay up late and then sleep in.. Do something you wouldn't normally do
:hug: Tomorrow morning will be here soon enough
oh hon...your post almost had me in tears....:rolleyes:
The first of many milestones......you wait till he starts school .....:wall:
To be honest Amber, it doesn't get any better (for me anyway, but I am such a sook). I cried when I put L into his new daycare, cried when I pulled him out of his old one, even when the ILs took him for the weekend I had a little tear when I saw him go off in their car. Its just being a mum. We love our babies that much.
I think it is good for him to stay with other people (not to mention you and DH to get some couple time). As long as he is happy that's the main thing.
Grandma's house is the easy one, wait till he starts wanting to sleep over at friends houses !!
:hug: hun. I know how you feel. The boys have stayed with PIL a few times now, but I cried the first time I was away from DS1 for the night too. It gets easier though - especially when you realise all the things you can get done with no kids around LOL!
Thanks girls.
Dont why I cried I ended up having to go to mums after dineer and stay the night wiht him cause she rang and I coul dhear him crying so it broke my heart!
Now I am sad cause I really wanted a sleep in and the sleep I had was shocking lol! So guess the whole night sleep over is still to come. Dont think I will cry though :)
Maybe next time will be better and you will get through the whole night.
I remember our first sleep over was completely unplanned as DP and I both got the flu really badly when DD1 was 18 months old and we couldn't even get off the couch to care for her properly. My mum had to drive for an hour and come and take DD1 home with her for a couple of nights so that we could recover. We were so sick that we didn't even have the capacity to miss her which was a blessing I guess - she had a great time with Nana anyway.