TMI post- brown spotting at time of af, is it just a weird af, or bfp?

Ok so as my cycles are all over the place im assuming as i am cd35 that af is due now, instead of my usual af spotting i have brown.

The first day was just internally brown, the second was only a smidge when i wiped, and today its been really dark brown when i wipe, but internally its had some pink this morning with some lil pin head size clots but been brown the rest of the day internally and on the tp.

This is not how af usually starts for me, and if i do have any brown, its usually ova in a day.
So i thought maybe a bfp, but i dont have any tests, and although i have had some spoting/bleeding with some of my babies, i dont remember any brown.

anyone have anything similar, which way did it go?

am i just having a weird af or a delayed one, or could this finally be it, the clots have me thinking its af, but i have no feeling either way.

tia ladies

As you know I have no idea but I hope its a BFP for you!

mm i usually only get brown for 1 day and then its af. hope its a bfp for your sake.

ps... nearly didn't recognise you nk!!!

naw ty

it means Persian fertility Goddess, who brings prosperity and help women get pregnant.

I hope it brings us all good luck

thanks gals :)

this is driving me crazy, as i was sitting here i had a lil leak so thought af is here, so went to the loo and had a spot of watery brown on the panty liner, just a spot like 5 cent piece, first time in 3 days.

So i wipe and its just dark brown, tiny tiny tinge of pink underneath it all, go back 5 min later and wipe again, just dark brown, so i try internally and dark brown.

what is going on ??

Im assuming if its af, she should be here by morning, i would think, be really nasty if she held out another day!!

Hope its a BFP Anila.

how did it go this morning hun??

Thinking of you
xx

so was it AF or a BFP you know what were all :pray: it is...

just quietly storking :hide:


thinkin of you xx

Thinking of you Anila :hug:

xoxo

lol u girls :hug:

well i have no definate answer either way yet, hubby says no tests till friday (im working on him), and this morning when i got up i thought af was here as i had a lil red cm dot about 5 cents worth with my brown, then later it was back to dark brown, then again the brown with a red streak, then about 5 min ago, it was a lil bit watery brown and red, so im still as confussed, the brown has me thinking bfp, but the red has me thinging af, but i only have a liner on as it isnt even comming down only when i wipe.

i need to hear some similar stories :pray:
if i am utd then i would be 5 weeks today roughly going from lmp, as im not sure when i did o, as i had a few different days of ewcm, and yellow cm.

hmm, i shall keep u all informed heheehehe

its sounds promising to me... i hope for your sake its a bfp.. :pray: for you

:pray: for a BFP on friday xxx

thanks girls, i really hope it ends in a bfp as well, and a very sticky one :pray:

well seeing as im on a roll with the tmi, ill shall share even more, im getting a sore fanny from constantly checking :doh: lol
every time i think something is happening i run to the loo and check, and news just in, light brown on the tp, nothing else, and barely there!!

I need to poas pronto, come on hubby, just a $5 buck one is all i ask for, lol :pray:

yeeaahhh, cmon Anila's Hubby... the suspence is killing us lol
xx

Well hubby went and got me a fr, and atm it looks like a neg :(
and of course just after i poas my brown went more red, but still had brown, so im assumming af is on the way, and she was just plain nasty, now hubby is mad cause he wasted money we didnt have on a hpt, and im doing the whole, i swear i can see a second line if u hold it a certain way speach.

argggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggg gggggggg i hate af!!!!!!!

oh sweetness :(

i thought i was the only one that did the "i swear you can see a second line if you hold it a certain way.."

you poor thing :(
:hug:
maybe its still too early?

:comfort:

xoxo

Im heart broken and in tears, its now starting to look like my normal pre af spotting, but why, why would it do that to me, why would it be brown for 4 days, why would it give me that glimmer of hope that just maybe just maybe this was finally going to be my month, hubby doesnt understand, he and he is right to be mad at me, i obsess to much, if i had held out we wouldnt have wasted money we didnt have on a hpt.
I hate my body so much, i dont know why it would do this to me.

oh hun im sorry :(

but keep your hopes up it will happen

sweetheart,
he shouldnt be getting mad with you, and your a women under alot of pressure, of course yu obsess too much.. we all do.
You needed to do that HPT so that you didnt get your hopes up anymore over the next few days (im sorry of that came out wrong)
your time will come sweetheart, until then please stay strong.
:comfort:

:comfort:

Thinking of you honey x

:comfort:
Sorry mate.

Thanks guys
hubby is right (i know, cant believe i said that) i do obsess too much ova ttc, i need something to distact me majorly

Stevie-anne, u were right, least i know now, but geez the timing of the red spotting to show up straight after i poas, lol

still not enough for a pad, but i definatly think it is af on her way.

thanks guys for listening to yet another ttc post (winge) from me ur eva loyal anila :)

Af just showed herself in full, i cant believe what a rollercoaster ride she put me on this last few days, ill never trust her again :shakehead:

So sorry A :( *sigh*

:hug: stupid af.. how dare she be like that.
so sorry hun

Sorry hunny :(

Oh Anila:hug:

I had a similar experience this month, got a little brown pink spotting when AF was due next day nothing and a little the day after and nothing, I did a couple of tests all negative but still did the if I hold it this way I swear there is a line..

I had myself convinced then days later got AF, I cried to!!! I know it's heartbreaking.
Just got to pick ourselves back up again and prepare for the next cycle!!!

I wish I had some advice for you in regards to not stress so much over trying to concieve but I don't I'm the same!!

The only thing that has distracted me the last day or so apart from work is I have started making a vision board... hoping some positivity in my life might help.

Take care of yourself hun, sending lots of :bluedust::pink-babydust:.

:hug: I hope that it is your time very soon :comfort:

Boo Hiss :spit: to AF, get it over with and PO for another 9 months ;)!

I know the feeling, it sucks!!!!!! I hate ttc, I hope you get a bfp soon. Anila I too need something to distract myself, I have decided I'm getting myself a 3 month gym membership next week, if I cant have a baby well I am going to have a hot body!!