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An internal scan at 9w4d today showed my baby has no heartbeat...again.
But my stupid body wont let go. I am still having lots of m/s including vomiting, but no bleeding. My obs wants to delay the D&C until my m/s subsides just in case.
I dont even know if I can try again because Ive been so sick. How can I put my kids and DH through it again only to lose another. Im just so lost and upset. I cant stop crying.:crying:
I'm sorry so you are going through this again :hug:
It gets so painful.
Oh honey.. :hug: I wish I could say something useful but I don't have anything other than heaps of :hug:'s and I'm truly sorry
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Oh, I'm so sorry for your loss :hug:.
Oh honey.. :hug: I wish I could say something useful but I don't have anything other than heaps of :hug:'s and I'm truly sorry
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I am so sorry you are going through this again :hug:
Sending you big squishy hugs babe xoxo
Oh DG :comfort: I can not believe this has happened to you again, my heart breaks for you. Wish I could say something to make it better, but words do little I know, Im so sorry :hug:
I'm so sorry DG! :( :hug:
im so sorry...hugs
I'm so sorry :(
I'm so so sorry hun. I've had one loss and can't imagine any more so big hugs to you sweetie. I wish I could say something to make you feel better, but there isn't really anthing that I can say, apart from that I am thinking of you and you're in my prayers.
Look after yourself :hug::hug::hug:
:hug: DG I am so sorry to hear
Sending you lots of hugs and kisses xoxo
:hug: for you, im sorry you are going through this again, i have also had 3 miscarriages in a row, its hard to pick yourself up after all that
Oh sweetheart my heart breaks for you xxx
I'm so very sorry :hug:
Im so sorry :( :hug:
I'm sorry to hear your news Diamond Girl.
Very sad news indeed - big hugs to you :(
I've had 4 losses so have walked in your shoes - it is a tough, tough thing to go through & hard to keep going back.
All the best to you - I truly hope things get better for you.
Diamond Girl :hug: I can't effing believe it! I am so so sorry that it's happening again :( And still having m/s and all your other symptoms is a kick in the teeth. Huge massive :hug: and im sending all my love your way xxxxxxxxxxxx
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss DG. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Im so sorry xoxox :hug:
Huge hugs!!! I am sooo soo sorry for your losses.
I had a baby girl, then i had 3 late first trim losses all requiring D&C the babies had died and just stayed..I flet sure that I would never have another baby, and really was'nt sure if I had the strength to try again? but I did..they were difficult pregnanies but I had another 2 babies with 15months between them..never thought that would happen..
we then decied to try for another baby another 3 MC later I knew I only had one more try in me if I MC another pregnancy i would'nt try again..I fell pregnant and carried to term..then we got a bonus bonus baby, so I went from 1 baby and honestly thought that would be the only baby that i would ever have to 5 babies..In my last 2 pregnacies I had progesteerone to try to maintain the pregnacies the jury is still out apparently but I believe that ti worked for me..I am not sure if you have had any testing done on the babies or on yourself, btu my progesterone levels are higher than normal but then the drop in half overnight thats when the bleeding starts the levels still look good (going by text book levels)but not in comparrison to the levels that mine were the day before, I often wonder if maybe I could have saved some of the other babies if I had known?? I hope that I have'nt overloaded you not my intention..I certainly feel your pain and hope this might help..wishing you the very best..take care..you will struggle for a while..btu I am sure you will try again..it is very hard to give up on that dream..HUGS ^
I'm so sorry DG.
Sending you lots of hugs.
x
I'm so sorry DG :comfort:
Thankyou for all your kind words. They mean so much right now. Thankyou also for giving me some hope that I may in the future take home one last precious bubba. Dr did some testing with the last m/c but found nothing, he said he will do full testing this time to rule out as much as possible. They did find a large sub-chronic haematoma right next to the sac and my Dr thinks that this may have caused the loss.
I wish this got easier...
I'm sorry for your loss, I'm sorry this is happening again. x
:hug: Nothing I can say will help but please know we are all here for you
i am so soory for you loss :(
iI am so sorry for your loss. It doesn't get any easier I am afraid to tell you. I am presently having my 8 th miscarriage and it is still so hard. Big hugs hun.
Hey babe, just checking in to see how things are going? Thinking of you xxxxxxxx
I'm so very sorry for your and your family's loss.
Yas, I just feel numb today. Its really hard to process im my head that its happened again because I still have so much m/s. It just feels so unfair.
sending you lots of *hugs* darl, I truly wish you'd never had to go through this again *hugs* please know that I'm thinking of you xxx
:hug: I'm so sorry babe. Are you going for another scan? Any bleeding? xxxxxxxx
Oh hun :( keep taking the maxalon the sickness will calm down soon :hug:
I have another scan on Tuesday to confirm, then the D&C will be booked. I wish there were hope for a miracle, but no heartbeat at over 9 weeks its pretty much impossible.
Lily- Yep, I keep taking my Maxalon, wondering when I'll feel better. My Dr said my homone levels are still rising which is why Im still so sick. My body hasnt figured out that the baby has passed:(
Diamond Girl- I am seriously so sorry. Ths is so terrible thats this is happening to you and your family. I hope everything gets better :(
DG, I am so so sorry to hear of your loss! I am thinking of you and your family! Take care of yourself xox
Hugs sweetie - I hope that your m/s settles down soon - it does take a while for your body to catch up with what has happened. Now is not the time to be thinking about ttc ..... take the time to grieve your little one, and take the time to be with your family and heal. When the tears are not constantly flowing down your face, you will know you're ready.
Go gently.... it doesn't get any easier, but you will find a way through.