I'm a sahm but i find it hard get everything done.(Dinner and cleaning ) What your day like? how do you get everything done.
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I'm a sahm but i find it hard get everything done.(Dinner and cleaning ) What your day like? how do you get everything done.
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Simple answer, I don't!
I know that is not particularly helpful if you do want to get everything done but I just can't fit everything in when I am doing it all by myself so my house is never perfect and dinner is not always organised. Some days one of those things is taken care of and I give myself a big gold star! On other days, my kids or my sanity take priority and I get a gold star for taking care of us on those days ;)
To keep things manageable, I try to keep toys in one room, pack them up as we go, have some dedicated quiet time toys that keep the kids focused so I can get another housework job done without interruptions and do jobs with the kids in the room or helping (for example, I clean the bathroom when they are in the bath, get them to help with the washing, pretend cook when I am cooking)
It is not easy though and I have made friends with the mess and chaos in some ways.
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Unless you are frantically cleaning every minute of the day i don't think its possible.
My house is generally a clean messy by that i mean my floors are vacuumed but there are always toys/clothes everywhere. Its near impossible with a toddler to keep the toys in the toy boxes. Plus it only takes a few minutes to put them away at the end of the day. But being heavily pregnant i generally leave them.
Its the washing i have trouble staying on top of but im gettng there slowly!
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I've come to the conclusion - you just can't :)
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I agree - it is just not possible to have a spotless house with small children. The best thing to do is to set priorities and realistic expectations. I make sure that the bathroom is cleaned at least once a week and that the kitchen is kept hygenic (so if I don't have the motivation to do the dishes, just rinse and stack them, etc). Vacuuming and sweeping gets done most days as needed. Laundry doesn't always get put away, but meh...
I don't. I pick my battles really. Today I'm doing dishes and washing. DH did the floors (just a sweep). I'm working 12 hours tomorrow and DH will be the SAHD and TBH when I walk in that door I expect chaos. It's very hard to care for 4 kids and a house so we do what we can (just the basics) and do anything big like mopping or bathrooms when the kids are asleep or at daycare.
Change your definition of clean ;)
I have found the secret is you involve them in the cleaning and tidying instead of trying to sneak away and do it while they're playing and ending up with them whinging at your feet. That's what I do and my house is generally tidy. We have some mess of course but nothing I worry about. And there's always some toys out that are currently in use. Nothing is ever going to be spotless with little kids.
But if you let them help it's much easier. My kids LOVE to feel helpful and like they're doing something important. Even DD2 who is 16 months. So for e.g. if I'm doing the washing they can help put the things in the machine, pull them out when they're done, hand me pegs, push the washing basket to their room, 'fold' clothes, and hand me clothes to put away. Or sometimes they start a game and the washing basket becomes a boat and I can continue packing away :) Sure, it means it takes a bit longer, but they get to learn how to do stuff, feel important, and start good habits with helping with all the chores, and you get a tidy house. It's win win!
Works for us here anyway :)
I had a cleaner that would come once a week and that was great, kinda like a reset button. But now i don't have her. Everyday i do floors, wipe clear surfaces,wash the clothes and dishes, if i have extra time or energy i will pick a room and 'spring clean' it.
Bedroom toys stay in their bedroom, lounge toys in lounge and have a box for them to go in.
Our house is a mess but while the kids are small and Im the only 1looking after it- don't care.
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I agree, you can't keep a house spotless with little kids!
To try and stay on top of things, I find a few little things help...
1. Declutter!!!! Getting rid of excess stuff/junk/clutter makes the house feel cleaner and tidier
2. Have a "place for everything" - makes packing away quick and easy - if there is no "place" get rid of it or something else to make room.
3. Have "systems" and tools which help when cleaning. Eg I keep my cleaning products in the bathroom and shower, so I can clean while I'm in the shower or the kids are in the bath. I also bought a rechargeable vacuum/upright DustBuster so I can do a quick whizz over the floors etc
4. Meal planning allows me to always have meals in the freezer so I don't have to cook from scratch every night.
5. Reset your priorities :) your children are only little for such a short time, spending time with them is more important (IMO) than a spotless house!
easy!
Clean while they are asleep. When they wake, strap them in the highchair to feed and dress them, then leave the house all day.
Buy takeaway for dinner :D
When you figure it out let me know....
There's been a little phrase on FB that trying to clean your house with small children is like brushing your teeth while eating oreos :D
I agree with Amaunet whole heartedly. I have OCD and I can't deal well with mess or dirt or clutter, but with 3 littlies (heck it started with one) I've compromised a lot with myself. Cut yourself some slack. :hug: They're only little for such a short time.
:rofl: Totally!!!:
I must be a bit of a weirdo but I find that the mess here comes from DH so when he's out at work, we can stay tidy. We live in a small house, so if it's not clean, I feel claustrophobic. I do my housework only one day a week and washing on another. DD plays with her toys during the day and she's encouraged that before she pulls something else out, she has to put something away. TV goes on here for her at 4pm, and she knows that it doesn't go on unless she packs her things back up.
Sure, it gets out of control sometimes, especially over the past couple of months because we've been repainting and getting our house ready for sale, but as a whole, it stays clean and tidy. And while I don't have two kids yet, I am 37 weeks pregnant :D
^^ Same as PacRakMG, I only have one child atm, another due later this year.
When DD is home, her toys are everywhere. I tidy at night, don't bother to fight the mess constantly during the day. I do my major clean once a week and washing is usually a couple of times a week - casual clothes & towels on Wednesday, DH work clothes & linen on the weekend. I vac every second day but sweep the kitchen and meals area nightly. I iron or fold clothes at night infront of the t.v. DH helps alot, so I am fortunate. He cooks the nights I work b/c I don't usually get home until 6pm and we eat at that time.
However if it comes down to spending time with my DD & DH or cleaning I'd pick them over cleaning any day.
Replace your flooring with concrete and put a drain in the corner. Every evening use a high powered hose to hose the place down...
I send my children outside whenever I can. That way the garden looks like slum instead of the house which make burglars think that we are trailer trash with nothing to steal.
What Onyx said... Hehehe
:rofl: Onyx that's classic
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personally, I would ask the children to move out and if their father is about, him as well. Only sure way to guarantee your house will stay clean for more than 10 secs.
i'm afraid it's like groundhog day, they make mess as you clean so you'll never win!!!
^ Genius!! If you think that that's a bit harsh because they are too young to cope on their own, boarding school might be an option.
Yep, that, or keep your eyes closed! The reality is that two littlies keep you very busy and they are small for such a short time. While you can spend quality time with them, spend it without guilt. There is plenty of time for cleaning when the kids are at school and you're not missing time with them to do it.:
Change your definition of clean
Lordy woman, I just about pee'd my pants laughing! Love it!!:
We keep the house pretty tidy - Only have one child so far, the next one is arriving very soon (due this month), I am certain it will be harder with two. We also tidy everything before we head to bed - eg pack the dishwasher, put any stuff away on the kitchen benches and tidy the living areas. It gives us a fresh start the next day. We also have a toy room, it really means everything has a place rather than having stuff all over the house. I also make all the beds and give the bathroom a quick tidy in the morning, it's much easier to keep tidy if you do it as you go I think.
I've found that the longer I leave things, the worse it gets. Now that DS is 3, we don't let him get a new toy out until he puts away one - same as PRMG - this actually works really well. Prior to Maternity Leave I would work from home once a week, the house would get untidy on that day as I needed to concentrate on working more, but we'd have a massive tidy up prior to DH getting home. We do have a cleaner once a fortnight - she does the bathrooms, floors and dusting, that makes a huge difference and frankly its the best $70 I spend each fortnight.
I have 3 young children - a 2 1/2 yr old and 13mth old twins and my house will generally stay pretty tidy...
I suppose it really depends on your terminology, so you mean clean or do you mean tidy? My kids have 3 areas that they play - lounge room, playroom and the boys bedroom and generally they will trash each room at least once a day, but I find they will play in on area and then move onto another when bored or want a new challenge - so I will then tidy the area they have destroyed :) which is just generally picking toys up off the floor and putting back in the toy boxes.
I have a handheld vac which adapts as a mini vacuum and that gets used everyday in the kitchen after meals and also in the areas the kids have access to to clean up food crumbs, I do my washing everynight after eveyone is in pj's and hang it on clothes airers in our bedroom to dry overnight (we have heaters on as it is soooo cold here) so all I have to do next day is fold and put away. I will iron a couple of times a week - in the evening when the kids are in bed and I can watch a TV show I want to in peace :), and every week DH will do the vacuuming and mopping on 1 evening when everyone is in bed. At the moment we are always cleaning the floor after each meal that we don't see the need to mop more than once a week. I clean my kitchen benches as I go, so after a make a meal I will clean down the bench tops etc, and my bathroom gets done when I have the motivation ;) but normally every couple of weeks when everyone is in bed so the kids don't breathe in the chemicals if I clean it during the day. Also my parents take DD for about 4hrs every Wednesday so these are the days I will wash and change the sheets and towels.
I'm a bit obsessed with the house being 'presentable' but I have to look at it realistically as well, I have 3 young children and they will make a mess, but by watching my lead they are learning that things must be put away so much so that one of my twins loves to pick things up off the floor and put them where they belong - and that's at 13mths.