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No one suggested a support group or counselling to me, I was just left to deal with it until I broke down two weeks later and DH sought out support for me from SIDS and Kids and a psychologist who deals with pregnancy loss.
I completely agree - no one at the hospital suggested anything like this and in the months following, I REALLY needed it. It was only very recently after the birth of my son (I am finding a lot of the grief/fear/anxiety that I didn't deal with at the time has resurfaced) that I was told by a social worker with the community health centre that the hospital runs a support group that meet every month - WHY wasn't I told this????