Hello everyone!
My name is Tei, I am a RN and I'm currently studing to be a birth and postpartum Doula and a childbirth educator.
I'm currently doing the bit in my course that discusses greif and loss.
I'm sorry if this isn't apprpriate as I don't mean to offend anyone, or bring up things that some people maybe uncomfortable discussing

but as I have never experienced the loss of a child, I can only try to understand the things you women (and man) go through.
During my carreer I expect to come across (although I hope I dont!) loss a fair bit..

What type of things helped/aided you guys to mourn/grieve? (I don't like the term moved pass it, cause I realise even if he still go on our day by day lives, we still feel the loss and it's still there)

What things make it worse?

This is just to help me understand and then when it unfortuantly happens to a client I can help her in ways she needs it, rather than just using what the text books say (which isn't really correct..)

Thankyou Ladies (and men - I would love to hear how the men feel too)

~Tei