MY OB appointment today

I`m not sure where to start, well here goes:

Didn`t have to wait too long thank goodness, once called into the office my OB asks how`s my bleeding, then asks how am I feeling I tell him in the last week I`ve been feeling exhausted, had weird cravings, feeling nauseous and dry retching at times but how can this be possible????? He then goes on and says my progestrone levels where looking excellent.

Onto the ultrasound which was vaginally and up pops 2 gestational sac, yes you read right 2 :shock: OK 13 days ago there was only one with no baby.

More investigation to each individual sac shows 1 live baby in one with a HB of 136ppm and baby is 1.05cms long.

Sac 2 - no visible baby or placenta, he thoroughly examined it and it seemed empty.

So after all this OB`s diagnosis is 1 live baby, and twin baby is non viable and that`s why I was bleeding 13 days ago and I`m still spotting brown blood.

Pregnancy is now classed as fragile and I have to rest up, not do much and not lift Matthew, all this is all too hard considering Matthew is only 7.5 months and I have to lift him I know he`s heavy at over 10kg but I have no option.

Mark and I are both totally shocked that we conceived twins naturally, we`ve gone greyer LOL

So all in all it`s a happy outcome but I`m terribly sad that I`ve lost one baby and I`m now classed as high risk, please stick little one [-o<

So where do I belong on the forums now: I`ve had a miscarriage, I`ve been through a miscarriage but I still have 1 baby alive

WOW! What a day you have had!
Congratulations on finding a little baby heart beat in there!
This exact thing happened to a girlfriend of mine. She was so so sad at having a m/c and 3 weeks later found she still had a baby on board but sadly :cry: had m/c a twin.
You belong whereever you want to be. I would say you pop back into that due in July thread and don't forget about us wannabes over here and give us an update now and then.
I am sooooo happy for your news!
Love and baby blessings,
Deb

Deeanne

I am so sorry for your loss.I really don't know what to say, but please do take it easy.....big hugs to you.............please stick little bubba..........

OMG!! Dee I can't imagine how you must have been feeling during your appointment!! I'm so happy and sad for you at the same time. Rest up and take it easy.
Sending :bluestick: :pinkstick: your way.

BIGS HUGS TO YOU DEEEEEEEEEEE!
1 Big hug for having to go thru the this miscarriage and another big hug for the little bubba still inside!

You make sure you take it easy and be a good mummy and rest!

Very happy for you and your family and your now new bubba!

moofy! :p

Just a question Dee. Are there twins in your family???
:bluestick: :bluestick: :bluestick: :bluestick:
What a miracle baby!
Love to you
Deb

Thank you girls, it explains why I`ve been feeling pregnant again in the last week, I`m still in total shock, as you say Fletch it`s a miracle, if you didn`t believe in miracles before now please believe in them now as there was no sign of 2 sacs or a baby 13 days ago.

Deb - Mark asked the OB how often would this happen that you`d loose one twin, he looked it up and said 1 in 5 twin pregnancies

Please stick baby

Oh Deeanne.....I just cried for you. What an unbelievable blessing despite the pain and loss you've been through in the last few weeks. I pray that this little bubby sticks for you and that your little lost angel will continue to watch over its twin!

Deb - My Dad says there are twins behind him but not sure what relation they are, I`ll find out more and let you know.

Behind Mark his Mum`s sister had twins but they both died they were 30 plus weeks gestation

Im so sorry for your loss Dee...but im so thrilled for the bubba you have now..whoohooo....stick little bubba stick [-o< [-o< [-o< [-o< [-o<
What a wonderful Chrissy present!!!

Jo :-o

That is great news Deeanne and Mark.

I am so happy for you both.
Make sure you rest heaps and look after yourself.

Wow, Deeanne that is fantastic news. I am so happy for you and Mark.

Sorry to hear of the loss of your little ones twin.

Please stick little bubba :pinkstick: :bluestick:

Take care and make sure you do rest up.

Yay Dee!!! Fantastic news!!

I am so glad that you weren't advised to have a D&C... eeeekk!! Heaps of sticky vibes to you and you little one :)

I am also sorry you lost one of you little ones too :(

Imagine you may not have nown you have another little one lost if you hadn't gone to the Dr...

Heaps of Hugs :)

Tanya

OMG Deeanne! That's fantastic!!

Sending you truckloads of stickies!

Wow Dee, that is amazing. Sorry for your loss but excited at your gain! Make sure you try to take it as easy as you possibly can and take care of yourself.

OMG Dee, that's awesome :happy4u: So sorry that you've lost one bubba but how wonderful that there's another. [-o< that this little bubba sticks. Truckloads of :bluestick: :pinkstick: and big :hug: to you and Mark :D

Oh Dee, I am so happy for you I really am. I am so glad things are looking better and I always had a good feeling from you from the start!!

Sending lots of :bluestick: :pinkstick: to you and Mark!!!

OMG that is truely a miracle baby you have there Dee! Totally amazing. I am sorry you had to lose the other bubba though :(

Praying this one sticks!

Dee - that is GREAT!!!!! Well - you know its horrible too, but what a blessing to have another little baby to look after. I am so happy, sad for the bubby you lost, but how about its twin. What a special little fighter. I'm sending you more sticky vibes than you will know how to deal with!!!

What happens to the other sac? Does it disappear or what? Sorry about the techo questions. Hope I'm not being insensitive. And will you be able to find out anything about the twins? Like whether they were identical etc?

Oh dee, I am just so happy for you. YAY!! Of course you belong in July!!! Come back, you have been missed!!!

Fi

OMG.....

Congratulations Dee!!

I agree with Fletch, its definitley a miracle. :D I have everything crossed for you that this little one sticks. [-o<

Sending you truck loads of :bluestick: :pinkstick:

DEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :shock: OMG Im So HAPPY yet sad for u at the same time!!! take it easy PLEASE and just let me say I TOLD u u and your family werein my [-o< and waddya know a miricle!!!! you have an AWESOME miricle baby awaiting to come in July now i expect to see u in the July threead VERY soon :flower:

Oh Dee what a shock your OB appt must have been for you guys.

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of one of your twins, but am thrilled for you guys that you still have a bubs in there.

Rest as much as possible & enjoy it if you can.

Dee.... I am soo sorry to hear you lost one of your little ones... but I pray that bubs 2 is a sticky lil fella...


Wow.... what a day you have had....


Best wishes for the rest of your pregnancy & try to take it easy... well as much as you can with a 7 1/2 month old

That's amazing Dee!
I'm so sorry about your other bubby
Make sure you get plenty of rest

Dee

Congratulations, what a lovely surprise for you and DH.

I am sorry that you lost your twin and I hope that bubs will stick nice and strong for you.

I had the same thing happen to me at 13w, I lost my DD twin and went on to have a healthy baby, I also had my eldest DD to look after and its very hard not to do anything.

Please rest as much as you can. Do you have family that can possibly help out for a while?

We are all here anytime you need to talk.

Oh Dee I'm so so so happy but so so so sad for you. I'm like one of the other lady's - sitting here crying for you. Ken and I are sending all the love and sticky vibe in the whole world to you right now.

Please rest up, take it easy and when you are up for it, please come back to the July thread. We will all be there waiting for you with open arms!!

Take care Dee and Little One!!!

Dee,
What amazing news, You have been through so much in last few days.
[-o< that this bub is as strong as its mum and dad.
Bec

Dee,

I am so THRILLED to hear your news. I am so pleased to hear that there is a precious little sausage on board. Having said that, I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of his/her twin.

You know, I knew something was going on by the conversations we'd had! ;)

Take very good care of yourself, Dee. Feel free to join in the PAML forum ok? You're most welcome there.

omg,wow deeanne,i am lost for words,congratulations on your little miracle
nikki

Wow what a day for you...

Huge HUGS for the loss of your little twin but also GIANORMOUS hugs for the little munchkin you have with you.

Take great care of yourself and rest up

OMG dee i am sitting here with all sorts of tears - i am so happy tat you have one wee one hanging in there!!! i cannot believe it!! it must be a bit of a worry but hang in there babe the other ones a wee sticker - so where does that place you gestation wise are you back in July?

Wow Dee that's just amazing. I can't believe it.

Sending you sticky vibes :bluestick: :pinkstick:

That's wonderful news after your bad new Dee!!!

It's still sad that you lost one little one, but I'm sending you all the stickies I can spare for you other little miracle!!! :D

OMG Dee!!! I have goose bumps! What a miracle baby :D

Wow Dee! I am sorry to hear of the loss and yet so very excited for you. Lets keep those fingers crossed that this little one keeps growing strong and hangs out right where it is, inside the tummy!!!

Oh yea, I hope to see you again in the July thread!

Dee, that is just the most amazing news that youare still pregnant after all you've been through. I never knew they would be able to miss something like that :shock:

I am very sorry for the loss of your other little one. :cry: Come back to July, we miss you ;)

Separate sacks means non identical twins right? Which means clever you had two little eggies thie time round :D

Oh wow Dee! it really does sound like a miracle! sending you lots and lots of sticky vibes so this little one sticks.

Dee WOW that really is brilliant news \:D/
Big hugs for you and sending some sticky vibes too.

Thanks girls, I`m still very stunned about the whole situation, I keep having to look at the ultrasound photos to make sure it`s all for real, back at me stares 2 sacs and 1 baby blob so it`s got to be for real hey.

Fi - My next ultrasound will be on 11th January, I`ll be 12 weeks then and my OB hopes to see the other sac to be shrinking to make way for the other growing baby and sac, if it isn`t I`m not sure what he`ll do. As for the twins being either identical or non identical I don`t know anything about twins and if two separate sacs would mean they are non identical, I`m just not sure twins is something I`ve never looked into LOL

Kylie - As I`ve said to Fi, I don`t know if two separate sacs = non identical twins and 2 eggs released. Thinking back though I do recall having major O pains on my right side continually for 3 days with very little in the way of EWCM, this was very early in my cycle as well, then 1 week later I got the same pain on my left side which only lasted for one day plus I had more EWCM, I did thing it strange at the time but didn`t think anymore of it, now it makes me wonder that I probably did release 2 eggs one week apart.

Dinky - I didn`t realise the same had happened to you. I do have my Dad living in his own house on the farm here and I`m sure if I need him he`ll come running to help out.

To the July Girls - Thank you all so much, I`ve missed you I`ll be in there posting when I feel I can.

AJ - My due date is still the same 27th July, although the sac size was ahead in dates and baby was behind only by a couple but at the moment OB is still taking 27th as EDD.

dee

i have only just found this and oh wow how bittersweet for you.

that is just fantastic and this little bubs will be so special, i am so sad for it's twin and hugs for you there - it really is a miracle.

rest up and take it easy.