Another question.... has anyone had any luck with fidget toys?
Maybe I'm wrong but I struggle to see how DS wouldn't just make them a weapon of distraction - part of me thinks they would only work for children who are much less fidgety and disruptive than DS (ie if you gave him a fluffy ball he would play with it for 2 minutes then throw it..) but I'm open to suggestions so if they have worked for anyone with a very disruptive child I'd love to hear about it.
I'm thinking of getting him some of the chew jewelry just to save his clothes...