Have those moments here. It can be so tough.

I don't know myself what to say. Often I just say I am tired, sore, sick. Tiredness is very true, I have been on the verge of tears trying to get through to DD2 that she really needs to try and sleep in her own bed when the sleep deprivation has meant that I have hit a wall.

All I know is not do what my mother did which was to scream that she was about to have a nervous breakdown and it was my fault. Still to this day I am not 100% what a nervous breakdown is, so I certainly had no clue back then.

I think there has been some great advice here and I will be taking some on board myself.