Thanks ladies. I'm so unsure of what to do, mostly because I know DD will be dreadfully disappointed if I say no. I'm still not sure what DH has to say anyway, if he's as hesitant as I am, we will say no. I just needed to have a bit of a gauge because I wasn't sure if it was just that I've come from a small remote place and knew all of my kids friends and parents well, since baby hood, or if I was being a meanie thinking the things I am. I'm sure they're lovely people, but this is my kid...