As someone whose "talent" was nurtured to death I must say "keep it fun!" and don't let her value be entirely about what she can do. Our 2 yr old has a lot has some scary talent musically.... she has a lot of natural talent. We sing with her daily and play "key board" with her every few days. But we always keep it fun and as part of a game. When she looses interest, so do we. Both DH & I are musicians, I have studied classically through to uni and DH has done informal musical training. We have decided at grade 4 we will start formal training if that is what she wants.... if not than we won't force her, we will encourage her