Thanks for the replies Ladies!

Had the appointment today. Looking like anxiety. He was watching her behaviour along with DD2 and suspects there is a good amount of attention seeking, along with her not really understanding her body. Saying that though, he is going to run some tests to do with gluten and wheat. Also have to monitor her bowel movements, just to ensure she is not having too much trouble there. There is the poo chart and she need to mark the what one she has done. What she calls "sloppy" is actually a good poo.

Going to do a chart of good and bad days for tummy pain. Good days get a star/smiley face, bad get nothing. This is to track what is happening, also it rewards the good days and not the bad ones (just incase some of it is attention seeking). Along with this we are to encourage her to manage the pain herself. So I have gotten her a wheat pack (a soft toy style one) and she is to use than when in pain.

We are to get her to think about her tummy a lot more, just not the pain, get her to describe more (butterflies etc). So she can learn that the "pain" could be due to her needing a poo, or butterflies is that she is nervous. I do notice she is not the best with hunger, not sure if it is her or a kid thing. She almost seems constantly hungry, but really does not eat much. May be she is not recognising hunger properly

Once we get through a lot of those tests, charting etc, if there is no improvement then we move onto food elimination.