As in the prep for it, Do you buy your own gift? Prepare the food?

Pre kids my DH was awesome at gifts, i always loved what he got me, but these days he is out of the house 6am till 7pm and i want him to spend time with the kids not shopping online for stuff for me. So I buy my own gifts, have done Mothers day, Birthday and Christmas for a few years.
It would b nice to not know whats in a gift once in a while though...

I'll gather the stuff for the girls to make me a card and pop out for a bit on Saturday s he can supervise that..

So do you prep it all?