It's now been 6 months since DH and I split up and we;re both positive that we won't get back together. We're still close and remain good friends which is fantastic for us and the kids.
Now i'm not sure what to do about all the photos I have around the house. Most are ok, we have a prof family shot near the bathroom which I want to keep up, but I have a bit of a problem with a couple of others.
The first one is one of DH and DS (another prof one), it's in the kitchen, where i spend most of my time as do guests. It's a nice picture and I like it but I feel a bit funny having it up however I don't want to take it down as it's got DS in it and I don't want him to feel like he can't have pictures of his Dad iykwim?
The second one is in the kitchen/hall and it's a 3 photo frame all of our wedding. One of DS at the wedding and 2 of me and DH cuddling. I love the pictures and It;s not that I don't want to be remimded of our wedding as it brings back lovely memories...it just feels a bit wrong to have it there and I know I shouldn't worry about what others think but I can't help but wonder what other people think when they seee it still up.
I also don't want to upset DH by taking them down (although I don't know that it would upset him, but I think I would be a bit miffed if he took away pictures of me)...it's so hard, I don't know what to do.
I think if I do take them down i'll tell him first and not just ket him walk in to see different pictures up.
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