Single mum, pregnant again thought he'd stick around :(
I am a single mother of a 3.5yo, she is my world!! Her father and I split just before she was born or though on and off for some time after that. At the beginning of this year I started to see another guy who I'd 'dated' a few years before my daughters dad. We found out I was pregnant a month ago and now he's done the bolt. I've told him I'm having the baby and he isnt happy with my choice. This will be his first so I understand his fears and concerns, he is up and down with his emotions of it all but ultimately he is being so nasty and unsupportive of it all. I miss him so much we had a great relationship before this and even friendship before that. I keep telling myself he'll come round but I know he won't. I'm scared and feel alone.
It does sound like he is a little scared, being his first child he probably is worrying about money, whether he'll be a good dad etc. I think maybe giving him some space, letting him know you are there to talk if he wants to. My DP went really funny when we learnt we were having a baby, stressing over little things.
i hope he comes around for your sake and your babys xoxo
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