DD1 will get on the phone to ex & tell him everything. DD2 will usually have no worries, but the other day was busy with a friend, so wasn't interested.
DS will not talk to him. Refuses. Won't say why, just won't do it. Not sure if its just because its on the phone or not?

The last call was yesterday... he didn't talk to him, but then cried (for the first time) that ex wasn't here before bed last night He hasn't said anything else about it & he is only 4, but I really don't know what to think.

He's used to ex not being around. Its not a new thing for any of them. But he used to attempt to talk on the phone. He won't even say hello.

Of course I'm being blamed for turning them against him I don't care what he thinks, but I am worried about DS.

I'm not sure what to do here... leave it til he can express himself better to talk about it, or talk about it now?