hi i was just wondering how long it can take to finalise a separation for a defacto couple... if it is worst case scenario and goes to the courts to decide who gets what, would i be looking at months, or years?
can anyone tell me about their experiences with how long it took, and how they went about it, ie did you have a mediator, did you decide it yourselves and put something in writing etc etc? Did his family stick their nose in? Did it get ugly?
I've got no idea when I can expect to be able to get on with my life and until I know where I stand I feel like i'm in limbo.