okay this is going to sound horrible...i LOVE my son to death and would never give him up but im just over being a mum at the moment....im over not having a life im over being 22 and not doing what 22 yr olds do im over being single im just over it!!!
am i all alone here or do other mums have times when their over being a mum???
I posted a thread a bit similar to what you are saying this morning. I completely understand. I don't have any advice for you but can give you a and tell you that you are not alone.
Lol join the club I couldn't imagine doing anything other than being a mum, but sometimes watching all my friends (even those that have kids, wtf how do they do it?!) have these awesome social lives and being so *free*... just drives me nuts. And yes, sometimes I look at DD and instead of being all gushy I just feel resentful...
I don't think it's wrong to feel like that sometimes though. I know that the good times outweigh the bad and that my jealousy and 'arg, why can't *I* have fun?!' feelings are natural, I just let myself have them and then get over it... until next time lol
yer i have this one "friend" and she is ALWAYS getting her mum to have her kid (even tho she has every second weekend off due to access) so "SHE" can still be 25 this realy pi**es me off because shes a mum y can she do that nearly every one i kno that is a mum misses out in things!! aagghh maybe im a little jelous of her but its more that she chose to be a mum so u chose to miss out on things!
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i feel so bad!!
and tell you that you are not alone.
I couldn't imagine doing anything other than being a mum, but sometimes watching all my friends (even those that have kids, wtf how do they do it?!) have these awesome social lives and being so *free*... just drives me nuts. And yes, sometimes I look at DD and instead of being all gushy I just feel resentful...
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