i hate him!!

**Neenee Jellybeanie** · August 14th, 2008, 02:16 AM

OH MY GOD

I HATE HIM SO MUCH

Underneath all the lies, underneath the abuse and confusion, he is essentially, a bastard. A complete *******. One of those people who just fundamentally unashamedly incurably awful!

He is meant to be trying to show me he's changing, by sending over the rest of my things and paying child support. He managed to lose the money he had AND his car AND both of his jobs in one day. All I asked him to do was; put my things in a box, and email me his bank details. I offered to pay to have my things sent. I don't care what it costs, I just want them back, there are things that are just irreplacable. After having to plead with him, he finally agrees to do this. I tell him i'll call him later and see how he's going.

Hours pass. NO EMAIL. I call him. HE ISN'T ANSWERING HIS PHONE. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH HIM? IS HE BRAINDEAD? WTF?! *palm to forhead*

I JUST WANT MY THINGS BACK!! *cries* and I just KNOW he isn't sending them so he still has power over me. Even if I could just have the teddies my parents bought Aurelia from Europe, I can replace everything else.

I seriously feel like just bursting into tears right now. I know it's just STUFF, but these are things Aurelia is entitled to, things she loves. Apart from that, ALL of my favourite books are over there and its going to cost a fortune to replace them all.

Why does he ALWAYS make my life as difficult as he possibly can? I don't deserve it!!

**Neenee Jellybeanie** · August 14th, 2008, 02:26 AM

after calling 5000 times, I woke him up aparently, and he has renewed his agreement. We'll see I suppose. It should not have taken months like it has though.

**loulabelle** · August 14th, 2008, 06:07 AM

So sorry you are still having such trouble Baby Socks.
He sounds like a complete prat.You are right...You don't deserve this.
I really hope things get better for you soon and sorry I don't have any good advise for you.Just lots of

**Kitt3n** · August 14th, 2008, 06:19 AM

oh hun i went through exactly the same thing with my ex. he still hasnt passed on some of my very precious things - even the photo album of dd's first year

i dont have any advice, just makes me wonder how many a holes are out there?

try o focu on yourself and your little one, he just isnt worth your energy

**Lulu** · August 14th, 2008, 07:32 AM

Whereabouts is he? If he was in Melbourne I would get them for you in a heartbeat.

**KimB** · August 14th, 2008, 10:21 AM

Try going to the police and having them go with you to the house to collect them yourself. That way you know for sure you are going to get them and you will have protection from his abuse. The police can be very good in this way.

Good luck love

**~Aveta~** · August 16th, 2008, 10:50 AM

oh hun i went through exactly the same thing with my ex. he still hasnt passed on some of my very precious things - even the photo album of dd's first year

my ex had a garage sale and SOLD my family heirlooms

then didn't pay the mortgage for a whole year whilst living in our house!!!

and there was nothing i could do, despite threatening letters etc.