hi, I'm currently about to go through seperation. I was married for 8 years with 3 children (5, 2 and 6 months).

why were your children with him for 6 nights? I couldn't do that. I just refuse to let him take them over night or even to his 'flat' or where ever he ends up (he hasn't moved out yet). this is the biggest worry for me.

I just posted a new thread so you can read my story there.. but I would honestly love to meet up with other people in the same situation - long time married with young children etc..