combat queen - its great to here from someone who has been in such a similar situation. I am glad that things worked out well for you, even though you didn't get back together. dh and I are both looking forward to living seperately even though we can't imagine not loving each other and not ever getting back together. You know I can imagine us staying together but living in sepderate houses for ever! Thankyou for letting me know that if we do decide to go our seperate ways life wont end for me