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we decided to separate yesterday officially... He's hardly around anyway always running around doing his own thing....
I'm relieved, there is so much more to this.... Like the fact he's upstairs banging around at 11.30pm being a very selfish person, not caring if he disturbs our sons sleep, I'm looking for a new home and will hopefully soon be free of all this unnecessary stress.
Thank you everyone for all your support over the last year...huge hugs
Massive hugs huni. Im so sorry to hear this. We are all here for you xox
:hug: Hun I'm so sorry to hear this, but im glad you're doing what makes you happy.... If there's any way I can help, let me know, please! Huge :hug:
Hugs M2R, I'm sorry it came down to this, that he couldn't man up for you and be who you needed him to be, who he SHOULD have been!
I hope you're ok x
I am so sorry. Big hugs. :hug:
you have to do what is best for your son, yourself and your bump.
xox
If you need somewhere to stay, or need to get away, I'm only just up the road.
Please use me if you need to x
My DH is now working away for similar reasons.
M2R I'm so sorry it has come to this but maybe it is for the best. Sometimes men do things (like get married) for all the wrong reasons. Make your life your own and ensure your DS is happy. Life will get better xxx
:hug: So sorry to hear it has come this. You are very brave and a great mum to your DS have put in all the effort that you have into making your family work and to now make this difficult decision. I wish you all the best. Let me know if you need anything. xx
M2R i just found this thread, but boy are you sure we arent sharing the same dh??
hun, you have to look out for number 1, yourself, of course your ds and unborn bubs but if you arent looked after then they cant be.
im so sorry you are in this predicament and wish that something will change so you dont have to be alone and do everything alone.
and you are brave babe!! you are pregnant and willing to give your children the safe, stable and loving home all on your own!!
thats very selfless of you..
make sure if you get offers you really do consider them cause any offer of assistance veen if its little will help you sooo much then you realise. i know how hard it can get..
goodluck hun, and if you ever need anything just ask!!
I am sorry that it has come to this :hug:
You have to think about your self, your son and your bump...they are the most important things at the moment.
I wish you the very best x
I was thinking this very same thing too (but you already know that ;p). Must be something in the water in our area of Sydney, eh?:
Sorry, don't mean to make light of your situation at all. I know this is a very difficult time for you.
I just wanted to second what Z&A said - you are doing a wonderful thing by looking out for yourself in order to be the best person you can be, and therefore the best mother you can be to your child(ren). Don't be afraid to ask for help if you need it. We are all here for you. :hug:
Big big hugs :hug: sorry to hear but it sounds for the best xx
Thanks ladies for all your offers and support. I posted a huge reply but lost it somehow..... I'll update later when I have time.... Thanks again xxxx
Oh darl, I'm so sorry to hear. I have no advice, just a listening ear & a big :hug: