M2R i just found this thread, but boy are you sure we arent sharing the same dh??

hun, you have to look out for number 1, yourself, of course your ds and unborn bubs but if you arent looked after then they cant be.
im so sorry you are in this predicament and wish that something will change so you dont have to be alone and do everything alone.
and you are brave babe!! you are pregnant and willing to give your children the safe, stable and loving home all on your own!!
thats very selfless of you..
make sure if you get offers you really do consider them cause any offer of assistance veen if its little will help you sooo much then you realise. i know how hard it can get..
goodluck hun, and if you ever need anything just ask!!